Just so annoyed at my friends sometimes

I believe I have good friends, but we have our differences and it really just annoys the shit out of me, im the extroverted one in the group and whenever i want to do something more "out there" i get weird looks from them and they never want to do it with me (which is ok), then whenever I'm in a really bad place, crying or just in need of comfort, they never comfort me, they just sit silently and do nothing, which makes things even worse, whilst Id do anything for them if they were just sad, and it feels really unfair. Today we couldnt go to a concert one of my friends wanted to go, and i lowkey took the blame, even tho it wasnt up to me, and it still felt like they were judging me, but when I said how I felt about the situation, they ignored me AGAIN, and it's just really frustrating, because im always the first one to take action when resolving a conflict, and even so, they barely do shit about it. And again, they really are great friends, i love them, my parents love them, but in these situations i keep feeling like shit, and maybe that's my problem, but i also want to be selfish and blame it on them.

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Night0wl · 22-25, F

I'd still like to correct my statement, they do comfort me, but usually when it's over messages, i am a very sensitive person and I can break down in public and it's then when they don't know what to do. They have admitted that they feel bad for not saying anything but it's because they don't know what to say. So i said it feels unfair because id know how to comfort them and they dont.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

U should feel lucky that u are all still hanging out. I don't see or hear from most of my friends. Most of them went to college and started to work and making their own family to hangout any longer. Got to love getting older

Night0wl · 22-25, F

@smileylovesgaming that must suck. Am not waiting to get older.

smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F

@Night0wl it happens to us all if u want it or not

KrakM · 22-25, M

Im the same way, I pretty much never say no to going out

Night0wl · 22-25, F

@KrakM Yeah, me neither! And when you do say no, (for me personaly) it's difficult.
I think its because of childhoos trauma that caused me to have a fear of missing out.

Jungleman · M

with friends like that who needs enemies.

SledgeHammer · 46-50, M

whenever I'm in a really bad place, crying or just in need of comfort, they never comfort me, they just sit silently and do nothing, which makes things even worse, whilst Id do anything for them if they were just sad, and it feels really unfair.

Really?
Friends?

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