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I knew I was right not to let my guard down around my catty gossiping coworkers.

Never get too comfortable around people because they will back stab and talk about you the first change they get. I work my butt off every day at work, often staying much longer than I'm supposed to and coming in on my off days.

But the one time I get off task for a few minutes I have someone creeping quietly over my shoulder and I hear her go and start telling my other coworkers about it.

"That's the great work shes doing." I'd be very surprised if shes never checked something non work related all the time she's been working here. But the boss likes me and people seem eager to see me fail. Why can't women just be kind to each other?
You will find that anywhere you go. There's always one smart alec in the group. Always one troublemaker. I advise you to get tough [i]right now[/i] and determine not to [b]ever[/b] let them bother you. I know from experience you will be way better off. They mean nothing. If that's the way they treat people, who needs them? They are only treating you that way because they are jealous, insecure people. Just stay away from them, do not listen to what they say, and do your job. I'm really sorry you have to suffer this. the more they think they are getting under your skin, the worse it will get. So just be nice to them and speak nice when they speak and leave it at that. Years down the line you will see that that was the best thing to do. I cannot stand people like this. They have a big problem. if it's noisy in your office, bring some earplugs and that way you won't even have to listen to their garbage. 馃槀 My best wishes to you.
coffeedimplez26-30, F
@LadyGrace thanks 馃槉 I didn't see this before but it鈥檚 great advice.
@coffeedimplez You're welcome! 馃
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[quote] Never get too comfortable around people because they will back stab and talk about you the first change they get. [/quote]
I had to learn that the hard way.
@SW-User Yes, that is so true.
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coffeedimplez26-30, F
Yes, it鈥檚 very frustrating @PainfulTruth
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Some women can be great with each other - real women empower each other.

I wouldn鈥檛 worry about little gossip mongrels, Just smile ... it really bothers them lol I didn鈥檛 get what I have in life by paying attention to the likes of them I can tell you that 馃槍

You鈥檝e got this 馃槝馃槑
coffeedimplez26-30, F
@SW-User thanks 馃槉
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No problem x @coffeedimplez
assemblingaknob26-30, F
It's not just the women. Men were just as snakey wherever I have worked. Eh. People are just petty.

 
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