My old friends won’t accept my apology because they don’t believe I’m being honest anymore. I don’t wanna make new friends.
Okay just hear me out… WARNING LONG POST….
So my friends scold me off big time for being a “toxic” friend to them and taking them for granted which I don’t believe.
1. One time my girl best friend got pissed at me because I wasn’t honest about the dress she wear and I screwed her over for not being honest and sugarcoating it. I didn’t say it was OK but it’s definitely wear it. She told me I screwed her over and she was embarrassing and yelled at me for making her look like a fool.
2. They complained that I sat back and let them do all the work planning outings and one of my other girl pals called me out for being lazy and not putting in my share. I make worse but not saying anything.
The next few times, they made me choose EVERYTHING. They made me chose the place, day and time. It was exhausting.
3. Also they told me that when I asked for the truth and they give it to me, I would scream and get mad at them and blame them for making me feel bad (well they did). I would twist words around to make them look bad. They also complain that I never wanna hear what they say or how they feel.
I tried to apologize but they wouldn’t let me finish and said they’ve had enough to hear the word “sorry” because it don’t mean shit to me anymore. They warned me one day if I push too far I will loose what I had, “true friends”. They said they want nothing to do with me anymore, I’m exhausting, and they don’t enjoy my friendship or being around me anymore. They bluntly told me that they’ve made plans without me and it’s so much better without being around trash.
Wow…….they roasted me and now they refuse to reconcile with me. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I said sorry. Please help!
So my friends scold me off big time for being a “toxic” friend to them and taking them for granted which I don’t believe.
1. One time my girl best friend got pissed at me because I wasn’t honest about the dress she wear and I screwed her over for not being honest and sugarcoating it. I didn’t say it was OK but it’s definitely wear it. She told me I screwed her over and she was embarrassing and yelled at me for making her look like a fool.
2. They complained that I sat back and let them do all the work planning outings and one of my other girl pals called me out for being lazy and not putting in my share. I make worse but not saying anything.
The next few times, they made me choose EVERYTHING. They made me chose the place, day and time. It was exhausting.
3. Also they told me that when I asked for the truth and they give it to me, I would scream and get mad at them and blame them for making me feel bad (well they did). I would twist words around to make them look bad. They also complain that I never wanna hear what they say or how they feel.
I tried to apologize but they wouldn’t let me finish and said they’ve had enough to hear the word “sorry” because it don’t mean shit to me anymore. They warned me one day if I push too far I will loose what I had, “true friends”. They said they want nothing to do with me anymore, I’m exhausting, and they don’t enjoy my friendship or being around me anymore. They bluntly told me that they’ve made plans without me and it’s so much better without being around trash.
Wow…….they roasted me and now they refuse to reconcile with me. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I said sorry. Please help!
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