Imagine your life at 2 ends of the spectrum. What does each of those look like?

@Musicman The worst thing was that my father tricked them and got his name on deed to the farm by telling them when they died that if they wanted to leave the farm to us children the lawyers would get most of it because it would go to probate court. They were simple and let him sign his name to the deed. Didn’t take long till he challenged them and it when to court a year later. The court had it auctioned off in a public auction and he got half of the proceeds and they got half, it didn’t bring much even with all of the improvements my uncle worked hard to make, a new dairy barn, a lot of fencing, a nice pond was built, farm equipment, cattle, etc. The total was what he paid for the farm when he first got it. So sad but he didn’t get to keep the money. He got sued for kidnapping beating up a teen boy he found hunting rabbits on the farm on a Sunday morning. He beat him so bad he was maimed severely was hospitalized and his family moved to California. That boy died in a car wreck 2 months later, probably still trying to heal from all of his injuries. Same judge told him 30 minutes later to sign the check over to the boy’s family and he did. I was very happy to hear that he didn’t profit from his nasty scam.

@cherokeepatti What a horrible story. ☹

@Musicman yeah it was. He’s dead now and got dealt with by a higher power, nobody here did it. He did pay himself back for some things he. Did to others in some ways as he aged though.

@HoeBag You are definitely right.

@SwampFlower oh I think I misunderstood the question lol