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Have you ever known someone who accused you of the things that they’re actually doing?

Like hardcore projection to throw the blame onto you. They believe their own lies.

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SW-User

Projectionist 😌. Plenty of them on here 🤨

Ghostinthemachine · M

I’ve been accused of having multiple accounts on here.
By people with multiple accounts on here.

Who’s got time for that? I’m barely here on this account

Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F

Not really. The only person I care really what they think doesn't play those things. Btw I just realized after you posted your pic today whay 420 is in your name lol. Btw you are cool in my book. You make me smile with your real presence and I am so glad you are allowing me to know you some.

Piper · 61-69, F

Yes, and it's a finely honed and deliberate "mind game" for some individuals.

DrWatson · 70-79, M

That is what narcissists and emotional abusers do. Yes, I have experienced it.

Darin99branch · 51-55, M

Yup.

SW-User

Yup. It's way more common than ya think.
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Starcrossed · 41-45, F

My kid's father is a covert narcissist and projects and gaslights all the time.

Ferric67 · M

This happens to me almost daily.

Hell, if anything goes haywire I seem to get universally blamed by everyone for everything.

I don't mind taking credit for what I've done, but I don't like to be given credit for things that I have yet to do.

BizSuitStacy · M

Kind of a daily thing here

SarithBorn · 18-21, M

Not that i am aware of but tbh it's a waste of their time. 😇

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Eddiesolds · 61-69, M

Yes thats why i told them where to go. I don't miss them at all. Very nasty so called people

Banksy83 · 36-40, M

You must not empower narcissists cut them from your life girl.

QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F

Yep. 🙃

wildbill83 · 36-40, M

yep, pretty much everyone (including many on SW) that has called me a racist, extremist, etc.

It's a sad state of affairs when a marxist hedonist accuses a flag waving patriot of being a domestic terrorist... 🤔

Virgo79 · 61-69, M

@wildbill83 good description here☝️

SwampFlower · 31-35, F

Oh yeah. You learn pretty quickly that they're just telling on themselves.

NotSureAboutMyUserName · 31-35, M

YES🙁

SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M

Pfft, this website is full of people like that.

BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M

My mom

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

Yes I have. My husband does this, so well that I question myself at times.

I am glad you are seeing it’s not you. It can be hard to see at times.

Banksy83 · 36-40, M

@iamonfire696 you still putting up with that psycho

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@Banksy83 I am, he’s bad when he’s manic. When he’s not it’s better.

Carissimi · 70-79, F

Yes. It’s narcissistic behavior. Those people are toxic, and should be avoided.

MissingLink · 51-55, M

Yes, had to cut off the relationship for my own sanity.

Magenta · F

Yes. On here for sure. Not in my personal life.

Ducky · 31-35, F

Projection, absolutely. It took me a while to figure it out. I used to call people on it, but now I just laugh it off. That’s a professional’s job.

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

@Ducky I’ve been naive for many years listening to people who were definitely projecting. Done now.

Nebula · 41-45, F

Yeah, and I actually would feel guilty because I hate upsetting people 🫤

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

@Nebula Yup! I think I’ve done it most my life 😆 Definitely onto it now though discarding some shame.

candycane · 31-35, F

Yes many on here,

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

My ex, it’s a mark of a narcissist to do that.

fun4us2b · M

Yes, very creepy person I'm thinking of...FIL's ex...

KelXtraAF · 31-35, F

This is pretty common in cheating situations.

Lilymoon · F

Yeah I have a family member that does this.... pure narcissism. 🙄

SW-User

Someone lied badly about me, idk what they wanted, but they definitely lied lots after blocking me and after playing mind games with me. I don't think this was a case of projection.. But definitely something was really off about them, the lies and everything

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

@SW-User there’s some twisted kittens on here for sure. Their self absorption is almost frightening. Except to do it online is so so cowardly.

TexChik · F

Politically yes . Personally no

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

My MOTHER actually does this. She is bad about lying when it comes to money (she has a horrible shopping addiction), so she was always accusing me of lying or stealing money. None of which I ever did.

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

@DearAmbellina2113 Like why???? It’s so twisted. My grandmother is like that, still at like 95. Some people never learn personal accountability and have no idea how stupid and destructive they are blaming everyone else.

11knaves11 · 41-45, M

Here how it go, you doing something. Then that individual who can not do what I can do tells me how it should be done...but then they Fuck everything up THEN play dumb....

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

@11knaves11 that kinda person is always unaccountable for their bullshit. I don’t let anyone tell me shit anymore.

Jeephikelove · 46-50, F

Yup!! 😂

LilPrincess · 41-45, F

I have a list

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LilPrincess · 41-45, F

@AlchemyFox damn skippy 😂

Fairydust · F

Yeah my gaslighting ex. That was something else 🙄👺

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

@Fairydust so crazy! I’m thinking back on it and realizing the things I’m being accused of were actually what was done to me. Even serious things I went to the doc for. The sad part is it’s been weeks and I’m still figuring it all out. I believed and felt bad.

People that fuck with your head through your heart should die.

Fairydust · F

@AlchemyFox

Yep it’s messed up 😐

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