Age doesn’t guarantee emotional maturity
If your partner blows up on you and blames you for them doing it, and then acts like nothing happened in your texts for two days, just exchanging “how’s your day going” and “good night” texts how would you take that? I’m taking it as he still thinks him yelling at me is my fault when in reality, he bottled something up, didn’t bring it up, treated me poorly all weekend to punish me for whatever he thinks I did, and that I’m still to blame for his issues.
Nope, I can’t move forward until this is resolved, my heart won’t let me, I’m not going to be treated poorly and just act like it’s ok, I don't need anyone that badly. Maybe I’ll bring it up tomorrow to test my theory. I don’t feel like I should be the one though because I was treated poorly but imagine he thinks the same thing. I just can’t tell because he sucks at communicating.
Nope, I can’t move forward until this is resolved, my heart won’t let me, I’m not going to be treated poorly and just act like it’s ok, I don't need anyone that badly. Maybe I’ll bring it up tomorrow to test my theory. I don’t feel like I should be the one though because I was treated poorly but imagine he thinks the same thing. I just can’t tell because he sucks at communicating.