How to get a life n be happy?

Focus on what you have and maximizing love. Be thankful and don't complain too much. Look to other's plate only to see if they need help, and not to compare.

Be with people but save time for yourself too. Give, but don't give what you don't have. Otherwise, that's the step to drain yourself.

If you're making others happy, make sure someone's making you happy too, even if that someone is yourself.

Pray. And don't forget to praise.

You already have a life so you've just got to live it. Experience things, build relationships, laugh. To be happy I think you have to appreciate the little things. We often are looking for these big things to happen to make us happy that we overlook all the little things that can bring joy and meaning into our life.

Be grateful.
Be simple.
Keep making progress.
Take care of your body and mind.

I'll let you know when I figure it out for myself

Determine what getting a “getting a life” [b]means[/b] to you.