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I Im A Transgender

I'm just done....I'm done hiding my feelings. I'm done crying myself to sleep every night...I'm done with all the hate... I'm done with it all... This is happening one way or another...I'm on the brinks of just coming out to my family just by bursting it out and if they don't accept me then I guess I will just...disappear...

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Tarxarin · 26-30, M

So I had a crush in a girl. I started out as her mentor at work, then she liked the attention I gave her, she wanted more and more and we had a connection.

Eventually I confessed my feelings, and she confessed that she was transgender. She also confessed she was leading me on and wasn't single.

I was attracted to how strong she was, how ferocious she was. She was tempered by fires of her transformation and it lit her up from the inside out.

Just dream very very big dreams. And have courage to go forth and make confessions and when it gets dark remember those dreams. People will love you for you, and the pain and anguish you overcame.

ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T

@Tarxarin Thanks

Tarxarin · 26-30, M

@ShatteredHeart *takes a bow* thank you for your story. It's greatly appreciated. It's inspires me to be vulnerable and write my own.

SazyGirl · 56-60, F

I saw this story you wrote. I know about gay people and thier feelings had a few friends in my life that were. Transgender I don’t know anyone so I can’t relate to those feelings to well but I know what it is. I have adult children in my life the youngest 19. Mine are straight but if they were not ? I would love them and accept them for who they are and be proud of them still. Some people and parents can be confused by the unknown. My advice is to not just blurt it out but sit down and talk to them with love ❤️ your a wonderful person no matter what !

ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T

@SazyGirl thank you

SazyGirl · 56-60, F

Maybe you could have phone numbers to give your parents of other parent who support thier family on this.

ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T

@SazyGirl Sadly I dont really have anyone to turn to, all my friends drifted away after high school

Bushranger · 70-79, M

Are there any local support groups near you? Also, how do you think your parents will react? I'd hope that they'd be cool with whatever decision you make, but I've been around long enough to know that's not always the case.

My heart goes out to you and I really hope that things work out for you.

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Bushranger · 70-79, M

@ShatteredHeart Never be ashamed to cry. I've been known to do it myself.

ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T

@Bushranger I know trying to hold them back causes more pain

Bushranger · 70-79, M

@ShatteredHeart Sometimes it's necessary to hold on until you are alone, but you should let the tears flow when necessary.

SStarfish ·

I know its cliché but dont take it petsonally even if it is directed at you personally.. Some people just dont accept transgenders..

Sorry that its difficult for you but there are people who will accept you so dont feel down on yourself for those who dont :( its hard tho to deal with rejection and all that.. So

Sympathies 😐

ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T

@SStarfish Thank you

SStarfish ·

Welcome :)

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

What are your family like about trans issues?

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ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T

@CountScrofula reddit communities I will check it out

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

@ShatteredHeart A lot of reddit is fucking toxic for trans people, but there are good subreddits which are super supportive.

ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T

@CountScrofula Alright thanks for the heads up

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Bushranger · 70-79, M

https://genesissquared.com/resources/trans-resources/

I'm posting this site on here, in case anyone else is going through the same thing as The OddOne345. We all need a bit of support at times.

ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T

@Bushranger Ok 👍️ I will probably look at it too

basilfawlty89 · 31-35, M

Hey, stay strong, if you ever need people to chat to, myself and others are here

ShatteredHeart · 22-25, T

@basilfawlty89 Ok thank you

DDonde · 31-35, M

🤗

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