I'm straight but I was bi-curious about the age of 20. I don't think I'm unusual

I am gay now but did exoeriment with the straight life when younger

Bi

Ask yourself if it was just simply curiosity or did you just simply want it.

Yes, when I was young I experimented with a friend of mine.
We would go to his attic and 69 .
Then I had a sexual relationship with a friends father when I was 19 and 20.
I love women and having sex with them. Butt sometimes I feel the need to be a total bottom and sub for another man.

Bi

Gay

You’re bisexual if you like sex with both men and women. I guess it’s true if you desire sex with men and women. It has nothing to do with your past.

As a teen I don't recall putting a lot of thought into how I identified. Experiences were not nearly as defining, but just things that happened. Questioning things came later when I wanted all my ducks in a row. For this reason, I don't think my experiences as a teen were an accurate answer to anything.

So sexuality and sexual behaviour are different. You coul dhave been a lil curious as a teen, dabbled, decided its not for you, and moved on.

Someone could also be 100% gay and have never slept with a man because of how deep they are in the closet. It's about who you fantasize about and would be with if circumstances were right -now-.

Might have been bicurios back then. What matters is are you still attracted to the same gender? Getting married to the opposite gender and loving them does not make one any less bisexual. Folk are often accused of "faking" their same sex attraction. It just doesn't work like that.