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TinyViolins · 31-35, M
It took me until I was 23 until I realized I was asexual, and that was mainly because I didn't know what it was. I always assumed I was just too preoccupied for sex.
I had been crossdressing for a few years before that and considered transitioning into a full-time woman for a few years after. I didn't really "feel" like a woman, but I also didn't feel like much of a man. I just felt like me, and it didn't particularly matter what I identified as since I didn't categorize myself like that.
After thinking about it for a couple of years, I just decided it would be more convenient to just identify as a man given that it was how the world saw me. I had the physical traits that were expected of one and didn't want to commit to a life of pretending to be something else. I dunno, that was maybe 3 or 4 years ago. I'm 31 now
I'm still learning things about myself, and I don't think that journey is coming to an end anytime soon, but as far as those two categories go, it was pretty late in life.
I had been crossdressing for a few years before that and considered transitioning into a full-time woman for a few years after. I didn't really "feel" like a woman, but I also didn't feel like much of a man. I just felt like me, and it didn't particularly matter what I identified as since I didn't categorize myself like that.
After thinking about it for a couple of years, I just decided it would be more convenient to just identify as a man given that it was how the world saw me. I had the physical traits that were expected of one and didn't want to commit to a life of pretending to be something else. I dunno, that was maybe 3 or 4 years ago. I'm 31 now
I'm still learning things about myself, and I don't think that journey is coming to an end anytime soon, but as far as those two categories go, it was pretty late in life.
Thijs · 31-35, M
@TinyViolins still learning new things about myself aswll. Hard to give everything a place. Nowhere near done learning
Do you only have no intressed in sex or also things like other physical contact?
Do you only have no intressed in sex or also things like other physical contact?
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
I realized I wasn’t straight when I was 24.
A male friend got naked & kissed me, and I was incredibly aroused...in fact, so much so that I let him fuck me.
A male friend got naked & kissed me, and I was incredibly aroused...in fact, so much so that I let him fuck me.
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
Sexuality/gender actually was never a matter in my life.
But I think I have started in the age of 40 to accept me and things I can´t change.
I knpw this is late, but better late than never. lol
But I think I have started in the age of 40 to accept me and things I can´t change.
I knpw this is late, but better late than never. lol
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I knew my Gender Identity when I was 13, in 1970. However I could not make who I felt like, who I was, inside a reality until decades later.
Memike · 26-30, M
I knew i was gay at 14 but did not accept it until i was 16
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
I discovered I am bisexual when I was 13 and been loving it ever since
CassandraSissy · 26-30, TVIP
Good for you.
I think I was trans from a very early age and wanted to wear dresses from, like, 13 years old. Sex? Didn't quite equate that until I got older....then it was boys! Lol!
But, I don't equate myself as gay really, just as a girl with extras that likes men.
That make sense?
I think I was trans from a very early age and wanted to wear dresses from, like, 13 years old. Sex? Didn't quite equate that until I got older....then it was boys! Lol!
But, I don't equate myself as gay really, just as a girl with extras that likes men.
That make sense?
Still working on it.
biandlargeny · 56-60, M
I started exploring my bisexuality in my 30's it was a 10 year journey and even longer till I accepted the label
ElsaKaren · F
I started at a very young age. I knew how I wanted to be by my teen years, I pursued it and I think that I have done well.
SW-User
There was a little girl across the street mom would babysit same age as me I liked when 4 and 5
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
When I was in Grade 4 I had a crush on this guy from a grade 5. That's when I learned I am into older men 😒