Who cares what someone else thinks is valid or invalid. Whatever you feel is what you feel. You don't need anyone elses approval for what you feel or think. I am the way I am, that is right for me, I don't feel a need to try to get anyone else to accept what I feel and think.

Because they are secretly masturbating to gay and Trans porn.

Bigots can’t deal with the idea that we might be different, but I’d like to think their opinion is invalid if it makes my existence invalid 🤷🏻‍♀️