I learned to be patient, for what was written for me was written by The Greatest of writers [I Am Enjoying Being A Muslim]

Patience is a pillar of faith. It's difficult to be patient, but to waste the rewards of patience is worst. Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting. It is of two kinds, patience over what pains me, and patience against what I covet. Sometimes Allah stops us because the way we choose is dangerous. He will give us what we need at the perfect time. Just be patient, because the good things come to the people who are patient.

[Quran 3:139]
[quote]"[b]Do not lose hope, nor be sad[/b]".[/quote]