I want to know ,for those who have lived through the loss of many loved ones

I've lost a few people and you just accept that death is inevitable and it pushes you to enjoy the time you have. It's one thing to hear that as we always have, but to feel it really is something else. In 30 years I will be 60 years old, some of my friends will have died, life is very short.

So yeah, don't take it for granted, fuck what people think of you and their petty problems, you do you while you can.

The feeling of loss never really goes away, but there comes a point in which you smile at things that remind you of them rather than cry. For some that takes weeks, others months or longer, I would just say don’t rush the grieving process, take the days as they come.

We have to accept that nothing and no one lives forever. Some just leave us earlier than others.

We keep them alive by remembering memories shared with them, and living a meaningful life I spires by their lessons.

I remember the good times. My grandpa was like a father to me. And me and my sister often find each other quoting him what he'd say in this situation as he did previously, and remembering how great person he was and a role model. He taught me about loyalty, honor and integrity.

It’s not an easy task, you never fully get over it but you learn to deal with it better as time goes by.

You remember the good times. You think positive thoughts. You live in the moment and try being positive about your future.

You find new people, new memories and new habits to keep you busy, but the memories do linger and sting sometimes.

You just do. Since there is no choice. Pain is a teacher.

I try to appreciate the time i had with them

I haven’t found a way to feel peaceful since I lost my grandmother

Just don’t think about it because it’s horrible

I lost my mom grandma and my dad within 16 months of each other. Few weeks ago my aunt passed away. The loss of them never goes away. This may sound strange to people when I feel lonely I write to my mom on my note pad on my phone. I also do the same with my dad. What make it peaceful for me they aren’t in pain anymore mom and dad are together.

Take time to fully grieve

I've never worked it out fully

You don’t 🤷🏻‍♂️