health condition upsetting

It might appear that way, but I would suggest if you can't get anyone and you feel you must, masturbate. Masturbation in this world, is known better than incels.

Settle down. Contrary to what popular culture would have us believe, sex is a relatively occasional happenstance among most of us. Sexuality does not drive a human being. When you have the need to satisfy yourself sexually you will find a partner or you will find it yourself. Don't compare yourself to any indexes you think anybody has figured out. You are just fine.

Don’t get a woman because you don’t want to or they say no?
Don’t masturbate because you don’t want to or can’t?

More likely loss of libido not impotence.

Neither ...you could be stressed ..over worked i..plain n simple not interested

teen?? that was 15+years ago,,,

Probably a good thing.