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Single people, have you found your confidence/self esteem getting lower with each passing year?

Maybe you met one person, or two people, or three, and you talked and maybe you even clicked, but things did not work out.
At some point, did you start thinking, that maybe it's you who's not good enough? Maybe you're the problem here.
Maybe you're ugly, or you're too dvmb or too stvp!d or too poor to find someone who loves you.
Maybe you have a sh!tty personality that repels everyone around you.
Or maybe you're just a b!tch or an ^ssh0le and people can't like you, let alone fall in love with you.

You ever think about that?

And each year you find yourself withdrawing more and more from people, until you have nobody, and no one around you.
So you sit alone, all by yourself, forever and ever.
With no one to hold your hand, or kiss you, or hug you, or support you when you're down.
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I've been separated about a year and a half now. Prior, I actually moved into another part of the house. Without going into the whole drama, I relish this time. My adult son lives with me and a big thing is to get him to gain some independence so he can survive on his own. I have friends and some local pubs I can go to anytime if I want to get out.

For the most part, I don't get too down on myself anymore. I actually have more confidence than I did 2 years ago. As far as a relationship, I'm not looking, and just taking care of myself and this dump of a house I bought.