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Single people, have you found your confidence/self esteem getting lower with each passing year?

Maybe you met one person, or two people, or three, and you talked and maybe you even clicked, but things did not work out.
At some point, did you start thinking, that maybe it's you who's not good enough? Maybe you're the problem here.
Maybe you're ugly, or you're too dvmb or too stvp!d or too poor to find someone who loves you.
Maybe you have a sh!tty personality that repels everyone around you.
Or maybe you're just a b!tch or an ^ssh0le and people can't like you, let alone fall in love with you.

You ever think about that?

And each year you find yourself withdrawing more and more from people, until you have nobody, and no one around you.
So you sit alone, all by yourself, forever and ever.
With no one to hold your hand, or kiss you, or hug you, or support you when you're down.
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AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
I’m gaining confidence and losing interest in finding someone to join the pack. I have to let it go. I’m not saying it will or won’t, I’m just finding myself in a position where I don’t need anyone. I’ve gone through so much alone and lost so many people, I don’t see any value in dreaming or putting out effort. I’m tired of giving anyway. I’m mostly reclusive but that’s where I am in life rn and that’s okay. I’ve already made it to the other side of pain so often, I hardly see anything as permanent anymore. Except my love for my son and my dog. That is real. Otherwise, I’ve exhausted myself giving to others who just took and took. Got no time for that anymore.