If you're a guy without a clique, you have to make a thoughtful post.
I'm not big or popular here but my posts get a decent amount of comments and hearts from my perspective.
My posts usually draw all the intelligent and thoughtful people in, and that's good enough for me.
One way to see if people are ignoring you is from the ratio of views to comments. If your post has many views but few comments, then people are ignoring you I suppose.
I checked your profile and your posts have like 2-3 views. I think SW algorithm is scr3wing you because your posts may not be appearing on many people's home feeds.
If people can't see your posts, they won't respond.