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Why is talking over PM so much more boring compared to talking in the comments of a post?

I get a regular notification, I get excited. I get a message notification, I sigh
AbbySvenz · F
“Hi! What do you want to talk about?”
🙄
You PM’d me. 🤦‍♀️
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@AbbySvenz fr. My answer is “nothing”
SW-User
For me it's because it begins to get personal and in a mundane way. Notifications on posts are short term, short lived and not personal.
Wallflow3r · 26-30, F
People say different stuff when they know everyone can see it.
Applepiedom · 56-60, M
@Wallflow3r or don't say it.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
They’re playing games in those private conversations and don’t want to show too much of their real selves in public.
Chickie · F
@StevetheSleeve yep ☝🏽
Most people are boring but if you ask the right questions then people will answer more excitingly
SW-User
I've been told i am cold in DMs. Also i seem to put people to sleep in DMs. 😆
Magical
FoolishLuna · 56-60, F
I like the open forum it’s engaging . I rarely p/m anyone.
Rokasu · 36-40, M
My PM's are pretty lit.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Rokasu
Carissimi · F
Because you only have two minds contributing. In posts, it’s like a communal living room, where friends and others can join in, like the local British pub (without the drinks). PMs are good for private conversations that’s why they are PMs.
ABCDEF7 · M
1. People are more decent in open communication.
2. You have opportunity to interact with more people.
3. You gets a feeling that you are interacting with many persons.
Applepiedom · 56-60, M
If I pm you I really want to connect. This is like hit and run.
I pm alot since I don't always want public comment on everything or share everything.
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
Depends on the person, somtimes it takes a bit to get things going too.
scooogy · 31-35, MVIP
You don't have multiple respondents when talking in pm
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
Cause in pm you're trying to come up with something to talk about ig
Pretzel · 61-69, M
becuase you don't get the odd "mushroom" pic in comments?
SW-User
Both has it's pros and cons, so it has ti be balanced dear 🤗😉
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
It happens but I really like PMs from some people.
I like both but prefer pms.
Coppercoil · M
This happens to everyone
Glassysky · 26-30, M
I dont really message much
Theyitis · 36-40, M
Don’t think of it that way.
Lack of attention
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
Ikr
I don't understand.
FoolishLuna · 56-60, F
@MrBlueGuy haha … exactly
SW-User
i would like to get to know you
Chickie · F
This is one of the reasons why I hang out in the comments more than the PM's
Bang5luts · M
Take some clothes off next time 🤷🏻‍♂️ and then tell Andrew, "Im naked right now. "
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Lauren19 · 26-30, F
@BBrendan In all honesty, I haven't, no. I just assume, possible incorrectly, that I'm having someone's fetish forced upon me.

 
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