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But, we don't have to be a certain way just because it's SW.
You don't have to be it.
I don't have to be it.
And yet, judgement is a natural occurrence. Every time we think something, there is an underlying perception and judgement in it. Judgement allows us critical thinking and analysing.
The problem is, when someone considers themselves better than the other...
And that, we don't have to be.
It's a matter of consciousness. Not a matter of being on SW.
You don't have to be it.
I don't have to be it.
And yet, judgement is a natural occurrence. Every time we think something, there is an underlying perception and judgement in it. Judgement allows us critical thinking and analysing.
The problem is, when someone considers themselves better than the other...
And that, we don't have to be.
It's a matter of consciousness. Not a matter of being on SW.
RebelFox · 36-40, F
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Magenta · F
It's human nature to judge, we do it almost instantaneously, until we learn not to.
To me, genuine compassion isn't just giving those we like/are fond of, sympathy and compliments. True compassion is giving to those in need that we may not like at all.
To me, genuine compassion isn't just giving those we like/are fond of, sympathy and compliments. True compassion is giving to those in need that we may not like at all.
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@SW-User i judge too but try to keep it on a compassionate level. Don't shame others just back off and let them work on their selves. If I ain't helpful I step aside and wish them the best... Gets to a point where you know you ain't got all the answers there has to be humbleness too I think.
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@userfawkes1105 True ...
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Be honest. Everyone judges. We could not survive if we didn’t judge. If I hire a babysitter who I judge to be incompetent and reckless, is it wrong of me to warn other parents of my experiences of this babysitter? No, I’m not wrong, I’m possibly saving the well-being of other children. There is judging that is positive, and there is negative (even harmful) judging. You have to know the difference, but we all judge.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
I once judged a man to be an arrogant and unfriendly shop assistant because of his attitude and demeanor. I was about to say something to him, but had the thought, “what if he’s going through something?” I said to him, “are you not well?” He asked how I could know. I told him he seemed unfriendly towards his customers, so thought he may be unwell, he apologized profusely. Apparently, he had a migraine and the poor man could hardly see straight. I was so glad I’d asked a kinder question than tell him what I thought of his bad attitude. We never know what’s going on with others. @userfawkes1105
@SW-User that's the spirit balance is key we all return to devine after the process... Uplift them for effort don't squash them with u realistic expectation no one follows. SMH.
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@userfawkes1105 yes I am not perfect no one is and we all do things others will judge but as long as we try to have compassion for each other is the key. With that being said if someone does something truly atrocious IE murder rape along those lines 100% they're going to be judged and they should be