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Thevy29 · 41-45, M Best Comment
@Thevy29 correct!! And nosy people will be nosy! Controlling people will be controlling!

Doometernal · 26-30, M
Simple. People who hold grudges belong in two categories.

Majority people belong in the first category. They just hold grudges because they just are losers and deep down want drama.

Second and the minority category is the psychopath kinda people. Good fucking luck if you made em gold grudges
@Doometernal ahh thanks for enlightening me… cause I sure don’t understand people that can…
ravenhill · 46-50, M
i'm quick to take offence, it's just how i've always been.
@ravenhill Do you get over it quickly?
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
Depends on what was done, for me anyway.
@Virgo79 I’m going to message you something. Watch for it!
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
@NoGamesTolerated go for it
@Virgo79 give me a few minutes…
SW-User
I answered in a broader sense than just one given situation.
Different strokes for different folks.
@SW-User yes ma’am.
Magenta · F
It may be tied to 'victim mentality' and holding on to it as it defines them as the one "being wronged". I also read that "closed-minded people are often the ones that hold on to resentments."
Magenta · F
@Magenta Maybe tied to their overly high expectations too.
@Magenta Whatever it is.. I hope they feel better.. cause when one does another absolutely no harm yet they put their nose in their business cause the do as they wish with their own profile… I mean really… sounds like they have a major problem!
@Magenta or control issues.. or nosy issues… dunno but still immature as heck..,
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
I have known a couple of men like that. My ex-husband had a grudge against his older sister for stealing chocolate bars from the gas station where their parents managed & blaming him for it, he was about 5 years old when it happened. He could never manage to be civil to her when we’d go over to visit his parents & she was there, alway making some nasty cut-down remark to her. I ignored him & talked to her politely.
@cherokeepatti yes. It boggles my mind. Even if someone did me flat out wrong, and wanted peace, I’d forgive them even if I had to trod lightly around them.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@NoGamesTolerated how can someone get married and have 3 children and never say a word to their in-laws? They are good people too.
@cherokeepatti wow… that’s as good as the devil wants. I can’t even imagine.
SW-User
I'd say it depends on what's been done. Some things never should be done or said if you don't want to cause a divide that can't be fixed. In my experience, if an offender really wanted peace, an offender wouldn't offend...especially to a point it is not fixable in another's heart and mind.
SW-User
@NoGamesTolerated Well, online, public sites...nothing posted is really our own business when shared with all.
Strangers on internet have nothing to lose by not bothering to associate with others they will never meet... it's no loss.
@SW-User But.. in my opinion ‘anything ‘can be forgiven… and must be if we want to go to heaven. But that’s just me. And this offender here did nothing to her!!!
@SW-User nothing was posted. See you pm!

 
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