Do you listen to gossip?

Do you make your mind up about people here yourself.....or do you let others sway your opinion?
I like to make my own mind up.
Of course...i take note of what others might say and keep it in mind....but dont take somebody elses opinions as read.
I do hope people give me that same chance. Ive had an unpleasent evening here. If your opinion of me has been swayed by something youre read or something another member said about me.....pm me and i will give you my side of the story.
Thank you 😶