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Why do people act so weird?

So I had to go to the pharmacy the other day unfortunately to get the morning after pill.
I used Protection but it wasn't rolled on properly so he wasn't sure if all the contents was on the wrap.

As a mature and responsible adult I went to get the pill to prevent pregnancy.

Anyways a woman I saw on a dog walk came in, I was filling out the form and the pharmacy was asking me to explain what had happened.

They don't usually provide side rooms for this but I was honest.
"we used a Condom but when he was taking it off he wasn't sure all the Contents was inside as it wasn't all the way up his shaft".

She had to hear this due to the way the pharmacy is set up.

The Asian assistant behind the counter looked like she was judging me too. But I didn't care, I paid, I took the item and left.

I've since seen this woman on my walk with my dog and she hasn't bothered to say "hello" she just stares at me...

Wtf!
SW-User
That’s why I got my morning after pill at the hospital. I was assaulted 😒
Im a little concerned you were asked for details tbh. They never used it :/ It's none of their business.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@V00doo I'm sure I'm not the only woman in the world who's taken it, and I certainly won't be the last.

This isn't in regards to you just a general statement.
In very proactive about my body and what I will or won't do to it.
I've not been on contraception since 2016 after I found contraception seemed to be aggregating my poly cystic ovaries.
I cut out alcohol and became a bit obsessed with fitness.
In that time whenever I had sex it was with condom and still no accidents.
As for taking something again, I won't rule it out but it's not essential since condoms usually work and although this is a regular partner, it's still in the "honeymoon" period.
We've discussed my issues and he's happy to use condoms as that works for both of us.

If the pharmacists intention was to Shame me, she's an idiot because I'm not embarrassed.
Miram · 31-35, F
@V00doo It is possible she was trying to identify if it was consensual.

But who knows. People are very annoying and could be just being nosey
@Miram maybe
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Those kind of intimate details are not what your neighbors want to hear. It wasn’t your fault she overheard you, but why the h3ll does the pharmacy need to know what happened? That makes no sense to me, and is too intrusive.

As for being judged, people judge all the time. You are judging them now. It’s human nature to judge, otherwise there would be no standards.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Carissimi Well I understand, but if you go to the pharmacy you're clearly going for something medical related.
It is what it is really.
As I said, I didn't realise that the question she asked was unprofessional, I didn't feel comfy saying but I also didn't, lie because I assumed it was in my interest.
Carissimi · 70-79, F
Yeah, that pharmacy person crossed a line. That’s too personal to be asking someone. It’s none of their business. @Mellowgirl
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Carissimi next time I will have to ask the question back to her!
In the absence of a suitor with a vasectomy & a recent STD test, condoms are almost mandatory in today's society.

However, I fail to see where it was any business of anyone except you.

But I understand where they would want to know of any allergies.... so I don't quite get why they don't have a privacy room where you can fill out the questionnaire in private or simply ask "do you have any allergies to ______ " (ingredients in the pill) just like they ask if you have allergies to eggs when you get a flu shot.

BTW... if YOU roll it on him the chances of it being "installed" incorrectly drop dramatically.
smiler2012 · 56-60
bloody hell what is it with judgmental people these day . they need to mind there own business basically[mellowgirl]
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
ew so weird. i’m sorry you had to explain yourself???
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@ginnyfromtheblock see I never knew this wasn't a thing.
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
@Mellowgirl it can, be it’s just like…. pharmacists should be homies 😭
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@ginnyfromtheblock That is totally absurd!! Why else would you need it, there is no explanation required.
Sepia · 36-40, F
Malicious people are everywhere.. You are good just do your own business.. Don’t mind her.
Miram · 31-35, F
This should have been discussed in private. I would quickly serve the second person and send them on their way before asking info like that if the setting was too small.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Miram I just don't think people think.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
You need a form and explanation for this? How is that their business?
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover the form is for allergies and basic health questions, maybe they should include that information on the form
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Mellowgirl Ah that makes sense. I heard those pills can make you feel really sick and make your cycle a mess. I just wonder, if you put some information in the form that could make the pill potentially unsafe for you if they could refuse to sell it to you.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@CrazyMusicLover Yea i think they have to either suggest an alternative... Or refer you to a gum clinic (sexual health)
But I personally am not a fan of iuds...
I had it years ago and it was the most painful thing ever. Caused me to get an infection
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
So much for being able to be a mature adult.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@JimboSaturn hmm... Well I'm trying
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
@Mellowgirl I meant for the people listening, they should be adult enough to hear the words condom and understand that people may have sex.
SW-User
@JimboSaturn they indeed should!
BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M
Smh. You do you, and try to ignore people judging. They're probably either prudes or jealous
Probably a person that believes birth control is a sin.
DiliMarky · M
Shes thinking, why she making that custard cream
SW-User
They ask you to explain what happened? 🤯
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@SW-User yeah... Seems this was unprofessional!
Lilnonames · F
Probably embarrassed to here it in pharmacy and really dont know how to approach or look at u as u both know she heard u talking. Just say hello next time and go from there

 
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