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ShadowWorker · 61-69, F
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I self sabotage in other ways. I never go after things I really want because I'm afraid my desire will vanish when I'm half way there, already trapped in commitments. And I'll want something completely different after putting so much effort into something that suddenly feels pointless.
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You really should take the chance sometimes ,you may be pleasantly suprised 😊 @CrazyMusicLover
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
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I’ll be right over ..🥾. 😅.
Hug 🤗 and a kiss 😘 my dear friend , would be much better and more affective though . @CrazyMusicLover
Hug 🤗 and a kiss 😘 my dear friend , would be much better and more affective though . @CrazyMusicLover
smiler2012 · 56-60
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@smiler2012 I never do.
smiler2012 · 56-60
@Mellowgirl glad to here it 😄
Ferric67 · M
Good luck dealing with that
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Lanyx Yea thats not always good,
You have to be straight from the start.
The recruiter can be realistic and manage your expectations but yea this always blows up in your face.
You have to be straight from the start.
The recruiter can be realistic and manage your expectations but yea this always blows up in your face.
Lanyx · 41-45, M
@Mellowgirl There is a bit more than meets the eye. The first interview went so well, that the guy invited me for the second one before the first one was finished. This guy was forced to go on vacation, when he came back they postponed on me a few times. I lost my self confidence; had a long-hard think about the alternatives and simply picked the wrong one. Like the french say: "C'est la vive!".
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Of course I do! And do it purposely!
I don't consider it a bad thing either. It's my subconscious speaking out in protest to what it sees happening!
It's a good trait, IF you want to be honest with yourself. If want to follow a long with the crowd it's a bad thing.
So do you want to be honest with yourself, or do want to follow along with the crowd? 🤔
I don't like crowds!
I don't consider it a bad thing either. It's my subconscious speaking out in protest to what it sees happening!
It's a good trait, IF you want to be honest with yourself. If want to follow a long with the crowd it's a bad thing.
So do you want to be honest with yourself, or do want to follow along with the crowd? 🤔
I don't like crowds!
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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Mellowgirl notice I gave two direction on this only. I just simplified it since I knew which direction you would pick. It's actually more complicated than just two directions.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@DeWayfarer and that's OK.
I don't really know what to say to you. Some people are stronger on their own.. But whilst your nearing the end of life. I'm only starting. The world no longer wants people to be individuals well not unless you can influence. And since I'm not about what they want people to influence in trying what I can to find my place.
I don't really know what to say to you. Some people are stronger on their own.. But whilst your nearing the end of life. I'm only starting. The world no longer wants people to be individuals well not unless you can influence. And since I'm not about what they want people to influence in trying what I can to find my place.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Mellowgirl oh you'll influence others no matter what you believe.
As to your place only you can determine that. If you want to be a big influencer you could be. Not saying you want to be. Just that you can.
As to my age... My words will be around long after I'm gone, yet not so long to be of any significance.
So will your own words! 😁
As to your place only you can determine that. If you want to be a big influencer you could be. Not saying you want to be. Just that you can.
As to my age... My words will be around long after I'm gone, yet not so long to be of any significance.
So will your own words! 😁
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[quote]I don't want to be this way.
And I am trying to do better.[/quote]
Then allow yourself to do so.
[ This could just be me simping or being a tryhard however. I guess I just need to fit in so badly given that I never have before and it just eats me up inside so much. 🙄 ]
Or maybe I just like building people up where others would enjoy tearing them down. Because that was done to me.
Go easy on yourself. Please forgive yourself.
And I am trying to do better.[/quote]
Then allow yourself to do so.
[ This could just be me simping or being a tryhard however. I guess I just need to fit in so badly given that I never have before and it just eats me up inside so much. 🙄 ]
Or maybe I just like building people up where others would enjoy tearing them down. Because that was done to me.
Go easy on yourself. Please forgive yourself.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
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