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how do you become a dominant person?

how do you display it
PepsiColaP22-25, F
with your dick slapping peoples faces
[@1090951,PepsiColaP] if only i had a dick 馃檭
PepsiColaP22-25, F
[@1101126,PersonWithUsername] dont let that stop you

Wear heels 馃榿
Just learn to be a leader....
The world needs those badly
WonderGirl41-45, F
I grab a guy's crotch and smile.
samueltyler270-79, M
[@498097,WonderGirl] you would get my attention very quickly!
WonderGirl41-45, F
[@5627,samueltyler2] I know it's a bold move but it never fails.
You can improve your...noticeability & "presence" by *not* letting *others* appear to dominate *you*.

Not letting others cut you off ("Sorry, I wasn't finished."), asserting yourself by offering an option when people are trying to decide where to eat/what to do/etc., helping others to not be dominated ("Hey, hang on, I'm not sure <name> was finished speaking...?") can help.

In a few more primal ways:

鈥 Notice your own/others' tendency to defer to tall people, and stop doing it. Height is not the same as being right.

鈥 When strangers are looking/staring at you--not in a friendly way--look straight at them and don't stop until THEY look away. This is a way that some ppl assert themselves over others, and even a way to assess possible prey. Don't let OTHERS "alpha" *you*. (If Kate Beckingsale does it, while smiling, smile back, go talk to her, etc. 馃槈)
[@322117,Zonuss] I usually have a smile & get approached by bums, and I do well with little kids & animals.

But I have been in...rougher neighborhoods, or had people giving me the dominance stare on public transit, and, in those cases, I changed my face & attitude & walked purposefully (& watchfully) in the bad neighborhoods, or did the stare as I said (including--if it lasted a little while--the "well?" look & gesture). I have not been bothered.

I was once at an American football game--one of maybe two college ones I have seen--and a very big guy (tall & built like a bear) was behind me & spilled some of his beer on me, so I was stupid, but I turned around, angry, and said sthg like, "Here, let me fix that", took his beer, and poured it out, then handed him the empty cup. Not smart, but I think he was caught off-guard by a shorter guy standing up to his bullshit. lol
Zonuss41-45, M
[@733785,SomeMichGuy] Consider yourself lucky. Some people don't fight. They shoot. 馃檪
[@322117,Zonuss] Yes, I wouldn't do that, now. People reach for a gun more than toilet paper! lol
Mrsbetweenfatandfit26-30, F
No one else should even answer it soft drink here nailed it
PepsiColaP22-25, F
[@455213,Mrsbetweenfatandfit] what did you just call me ? *pulls pepsip out
Mrsbetweenfatandfit26-30, F
[@1090951,PepsiColaP] don鈥檛 shake it like that! It鈥檒l spray 馃槺
Justmeraeagain51-55, F
I don't ,as it's not me, not a push over,but not in your face type of person.
DolphinCookie36-40, F
I don鈥檛 think you become dominant.. I think you are or aren鈥檛 馃し鈥嶁檧锔
FishSticks31-35, F
By displaying my plumage and making high-pitched whale screeches
REMsleep41-45, F
Think of yourself and your desires before others. Don't take no for an answer and get what you want by any means necessary.
Find the weakness of others and use at the right time.
Control the narrative and the room. Know how to work people
[@867436,REMsleep] I think there's a difference between dominance and narcissism.
That response is the later....
mysoulsays31-35, M
[@867436,REMsleep] This was helpful..
I don't. I just make them crawl.
TurtlePink22-25, F
Lay on top of them
roll over them
OzDiver61-69, M
Forceful genital displays if challenged
[@421882,OzDiver] And chest-thumping!
OzDiver61-69, M
[@733785,SomeMichGuy] You got it! 馃憤
Quetzalcoatlus46-50, M
Set goals and accomplish them. What people think of you is not important
Zonuss41-45, M
Do you want to be dominant.馃檪
[@322117,Zonuss] very much so
Hahahaha just take charge!
HoraceGreenley56-60, M
I just walk into a room

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