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This is going to sound very brutally blunt but is it bad that I want my own child to experience heartbreak?

I mean let’s face it, everyone is going to get their hearts broken. It’s life and we can’t avoid not getting hurt. You can’t expect to be happy all the DAMN TIME. I don’t have any children but if I had a child (children), I WANT them to at least experience heartbreak. I don’t want them to get heartbroken, but how are they going to know what pain is if they never experienced it? They need to experience pain, sadness and all that. We want them to be happy of course but they need to experience sorrow and downfall. Yes it sounds cruel and most parents are “cruel to be kind” but parents HAVE to be “cruel” to prepare kids and teens for life. You can’t be nice all the time and stop sugarcoating life.
If you never experience heartbreak then you won’t know how it feels and won’t be a stronger person. So yes, parents, i’m not trying to tell you how to parent your kids but LET THEM EXPERIENCE HEARTBREAK AND PAIN.
AndysLoft · 56-60, M
I hope you experience armpit lice.
PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F
@AndysLoft Whatever. You’re just grumpy because I am blunt and outspoken. I have nothing to be sorry about.
AndysLoft · 56-60, M
@PetiteJulie01 No being grumpy, I think you are bound to experience armpit lice at some point so you should give it a try now so that you will be used to it...
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
They will at some point regardless
PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F
@Jenny1234 hate to admit it but it is the truth and they will experience heartbreak. Not might, they WILL. Yes it will not feel good but it’s going to happen regardless and you can expect everyone to be happy all the time. Even the happiest people get their heart is broken. Frankly I want it to happen.
PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F
Wiseacre · F
Everyone will experience heartache...no need to wish for it!
PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F
@Wiseacre I’m not wishing it. I’m just saying they need to experience it. They can expect to be happy all the time
Wiseacre · F
They will...guaranteed!@PetiteJulie01
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
That was brutally honest, for sure.
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You don't need kids
PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F
@mondayschild2 I don’t have any kids I said if I had one. I’m too young to have one
Human1000 · M
Hand over your ovaries, please. You won’t be needing them.
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PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F
@MarmeeMarch Not yet. I’m only 19! I’ll be 20 this week.

 
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