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Is it okay that I dislike my dads girlfriend sometimes?

My dad and his girlfriend have been together for four years. I was 14 going on 15 when he first met her and started dating. I noticed that she has started to come around more and more and it annoyed me. My dad warned me that I was going to be seeing a LOT of her and I will see her a lot and get ready for a lot of changes. I like her sometimes but I don’t like her much. My dad at first asks what we think of her. My older siblings (adults) thinks she’s okay and hope she wouldn’t leave. I said I liked her (when I didn’t really mean it) he knew it wasn’t telling the truth and demanded me to be honest. I told him that she has a big mouth, way too outspoken and she is a little rude and always gets on me for not acting right. My dad likes that I’m honest, but that’s just who she is and I can’t change peoples minds or make them how I want them to be and she can tend to be very firm and outspoken. She doesn’t take crap from anyone and she is honest which he loves about her. He said I shouldn’t have said she has a big mouth, even though it is true. I was speaking facts! At first I didn’t even want to interact with her but my dad said I’m going to have to either I like it or not. He said I don’t have to like her but I need to respect her, interact sometimes and she isn’t going ANYWHERE.
When I was younger I will try things to make her go away but my dad caught me and called me out and demanded me to apologize to her. That was like four years ago. I’ve gotten used to her and I’m 18 going on 19 but I still don’t like her sometimes. Too outspoken.
MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F
My dad is terrible at picking out girlfriends. Once I left for college that was a great way to avoid them for more parts of the year. After college I mainly have lived on my own, best part about that is I’m in a different state so I never see my dad and his dumb girlfriends unless I’m back for a holiday . Look forward to that!
I dislike everybody at different times.. 🤷‍♂️
[@327405,TheOneyouwerewarnedabout] yeah but you don’t understand. This is different OK?

 
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