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Are these narcissistic traits?

I posted on here before but I guess I’m just looking for more advice because this guy really hurt me. I was talking to a guy for a while and I noticed some of the things he would say seemed weird. He would say he is better than everyone else, that he knows a lot about everything. He called his own parents and friend stupid. He lacked empathy, for example, if we were in a situation, he would tell me to get up for an old lady or pregnant lady on a bus and could care less about them. He thought his opinion was right a lot of the time. If I disagreed with his thinking he would say you’re a retard. He said if I was in a relationship with him and cheated on him, he told me he would shoot me. Are these signs of narcissism?

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

He sounds crazy, never mind narcissistic.

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

Could be. They are usually very full of themselves but overly sensitive. They have to know more than you so any new information you might give will be met with defensiveness.

summerlove · 31-35, F

@KuroNeko he used to say me he’s better than people. He said to me even I’m better than you. He also admitted he uses that as way if someone hurts him, he has to automatically think to himself but I’m better than you so it doesn’t matter what they’re saying. So really he is sensitive but tries to hide it. I don’t know if that is a trait of narcissism.

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

@summerlove I would say he sounds like one but it's hard to say without talking to him. Either way, he sounds very unhealthy so if you are still in contact I'd advise you to cut that off.

summerlove · 31-35, F

@KuroNeko I’m not in contact with him anymore. He messaged me saying I’ve met someone. I’m moving on and pretty much goodbye just like that and only a few days earlier he told me he cared about me a lot and he misses me. I told him you hurt me and he didn’t seem to care at all. He actually blamed me saying it’s your fault you got too invested in me. I only got invested because I thought he cared about me.

Mamapolo2016 · F

Never mind if he's a narcissist - the 'I would shoot you if you cheated' is a screaming red flag, actually usually comes from people who would cheat on you without a second thought.

The best thing you two ever did was to break up.

yeronlyman · 51-55, M

Where you having a relationship with Donald J Trump? 😬

summerlove · 31-35, F

@yeronlyman well he was a Trump supporter.

yeronlyman · 51-55, M

@summerlove there you go, Lolol

😬🤗

summerlove · 31-35, F

@yeronlyman he literally would go on about it all the time how much he hates the government like literally all the time, it’s like I get it.

Driver2 · M

Get away

summerlove · 31-35, F

@Driver2 I didn’t have to. He left me because he found someone new. It’s like I’m moving on now goodbye.

Dolimyte · 41-45, M

Sounds like it to me, but I'm not qualified to say. I'd stay clear of him either way.

iamelijah · 26-30, M

He is a narcissistic.
That kind of guy is very hard to tolerate.

summerlove · 31-35, F

@ilovefood the first month with him was great. Then one time he misinterpreted what I said and he got into this huge argument with me all because we have different tastes in music. He completely lost it with me and starting cussing. That was the first red flag I saw of him.

SW-User

Narcissism is the least of his problems.

SweetMae · 70-79, F

Yes or even delusional.

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