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I got another question what's your opinion

Is letting someone who persued you know that you like them but you're in a relationship wrong ? Would it be more acceptable to just tell them you're in a relationship but omit the fact that you like them too?

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bijouxbroussard · F

Unless you plan to date them [b]and[/b] the person you’re in a relationship with (and it’s okay with your partner), it would be cruel, imo. What would be the point of telling someone that you’re interested if you’re not in a position to do anything about it ? 🤔

Mikedewars · 70-79, M

@bijouxbroussard yep. But I'm in a nonsexual marriage

bijouxbroussard · F

@Mikedewars Are you the OP’s partner ? 🙁

LeaDhelani · 22-25, F

Like them as a person or like like? Not wrong to let them know but not sure if meant to like another while in relationship

Mikedewars · 70-79, M

Def let them know you like them

Iwillwait · M

I would omit the "I like you too," as nice or reciprocal as it may appear, this could be misleading and certainly an open doorway to hell.

Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F

@Iwillwait I agree you telling them that might lead to them thinking they have a chance or you're willing to cheat with them.

Iwillwait · M

@Prettybratbi1tch Agreed. You or they would never need affirmation of attraction, [i]you just know[/i]. Saying it only gives power to such force and enables a Pathway towards destructions.

Nobody00 · F

just tell the truth ....your current gf lol

Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F

@Nobody00 that's not my situation but I think that could lead to problems they might think you're willing to replace them with the other person you like

Nobody00 · F

@Prettybratbi1tch yes...she is going to find out anyway

undetermined

idk if you like someone else while being in a relationship with another, you probably dont like the relationship that you are in.

Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F

@undetermined idk I disagree in my opinion you can like multiple people at a time just like you can love multiple at a time. It's only a problem if you like another person more than you like your partner or you liking someone else is getting in the way of you being with your partner.

Mikedewars · 70-79, M

@Prettybratbi1tch yes. My wife and I are Sans Sex for 15 years, but we have financial reasons to stay together.
She doesn't ask. I don't tell.

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