Yea lol

Yes...

I’ve read that people typically gain 1.5 lbs per year after 30. It’s higher in the USA. If you develop good habits and a good relationship with food you don’t ever need to be fat.

Yes, it's definitely a thing. Not guaranteed of course. In my case I was big already so the odds were probably against my partner for her remaining slim 🙃

The best kind of relationship gets you healthier, the active kind, like hiking and swimming and walking together