Is it normal to want this for a birthday present?

I wouldn't mind my future wife giving me a lap dance in a bra and thong with high heels on. She could take me to the bedroom instruct me to sit in the chair and look the other way until she says I can look. She could come into the room tell me to look, when I look I see her in a bathrobe or a dress, then she tells me to look away again, when she tells me to look this time she would be in a bra, a thong, and high heels. The rules would be I can't touch her for the duration of the dance, she could tell me how long it will last and keep adding a few minutes to tease me. Also because I have a belly button fetish, she could belly dance and do some belly rolls, the whole dance she could look at me seductively. Finally when it's over we make love passionately, then cuddle up and enjoy a long snooze. Songs we could play are Young Lust by Pink Floyd and something upbeat by Shania Twain. I know a lot of people would say go to a strip club but they degrade women and I respect women, I want to wait until I get married to do this and I want to make sure my wife wants to do that as well. I'm not going to force her to do that.