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No. Once someone is finally out of your life that deserves to be then that’s where they should stay.
Peapod · 61-69, F
I think it may help the both of you if you have a long talk. See where her head is. She may have had a major life change that has opened her eyes and wants to share that. This is not to say you owe her your trust and friendship again. She probably does miss you and perhaps just talking to her will give her some closure if you have moved on. Ignoring her will likely make it worse all around and quite frankly, she ought to hear what you have to say as well.

Good luck.
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@Peapod I guess so. I just don't want to make that mistake of letting her in my life again. My best friend said don't you dare be friends with her again. My oldest brother said it's up to me and it's my choice, but it would be best to hear her out and then tell her the truth that I've moved on. If I wanna be friends with her again, go ahead but be careful bit it's my choice.
He also said I'm 25 and people can't make choices for me, I have to make them myself and that's why Dad let's you make choices for yourself and let you go.
SW-User
Have you been happier without her?

I bet you have..
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@SW-User To be very blunt, yes I am. My life is so much better without her and I'm happier. To tell you the truth, I was miserable when I went to hang with her. I acted happy but truth is, I hated it.
SW-User
@ElizabethBabe1994 You've got the upper hand here.. Avoid her, and stay away, she's dragged you down and made you miserable.. she's the kind who sucked the life out of you and wanted things, time, money from you .. and you got NOTHING in return..
she's not a friend, she's septic
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@SW-User Exactly.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@StevetheSleeve After what she's done? Don't think so. She doesn't deserve my respect.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@ElizabethBabe1994 Oh, you can be nice without getting into a friendship with her again. It just shows you’re not her.
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
When in doubt, do without. Why would you want to give her another opportunity to mistreat you?
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@DreamyCrush My best friend told me the same thing. I didn't even answer that girl. I ignored her message
Jwolf90 · 26-30, M
I'm going to have to agree the peanut gallery on this. I've been there it generally dosent seem to end well.
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@Jwolf90 Yeah. Even my best friend said don't. It isn't worth it and she probably wants something from me again. She was like, "Why would you wanna be friends to someone that doesn't give a shit about you? Why risk getting hurt again?"
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F
@DreamyCrush I mean she is right. I ignored that girl's message
SW-User
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Trust your instincts.
Personally, I would not be friends with her again
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
I hear you saying you don't want to.. I know it's hard but it sounds like you should go with your git feeling on this
Like sands through the hourglass..
so are the Days Of Our Lives..
ElizabethBabe1994 · 26-30, F

 
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