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R5000 · 41-45, M
Because if we just talk about ourselves we are told we are self absorbed
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R5000 · 41-45, M
Maybe that's why you having a tough time - you are jumping to conclusions. Like that I thought you are a man hater.
fenomen02 · 41-45, M
@Chloe as far as I can say (and I think I can say a lot giving my long lasting chat with Chloe) she LOVES men...
Its called getting to know someone
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@Chloe not being smart ,it's how you get to know someone
Elisbch · M
@NunIover... Nailed it... Its called getting to know someone...
LyricalOne · F
I really wouldn’t call that a gender specific trait.
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
They sound like one of my categories!

https://similarworlds.com/8839489-I-Am-Fascinated-By-Human-Behavior/201468-Street-Rules-A-Suggested-Code-of-Conduct-for?sort=1
frequentlyme · 70-79, M
Could be they find you interesting and want to know more. Could also be they are nosey jerks.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
One time I asked asked questions and was told it felt like an interview. So my final question was “why did you bother to text me if you’re an asshole?”. He blocked me. Lol
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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Exactly, me too...so either talk or go away and don’t waste my time. I can’t hold the convo on my own, especially if I didn’t start it.@Chloe
Bluesky53 · 61-69, M
it's called getting aquainted but it can be overdone,
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Bluesky53 · 61-69, M
@Chloe i see what you mean,we have our limits,
Trevo · 26-30, M
One needs to sound interested in you at first. You don't wanna have guys asking the real question right away 😏
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Trevo · 26-30, M
@Chloe there you go
plankter979 · 51-55, M
how would you prefer a conversation went?
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plankter979 · 51-55, M
oh definitely...so you mean it's not a 2 way street? When i ask a question I usually put it in the context of my own answer to that question...
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
I can’t speak for others . I ask a lot of questions so I can know a person real good . And I don’t want to get scammed .
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Elisbch · M
@Chloe when chatting with someone (suspected female) for the first time, I have "never" required a woman to "prove" she's a woman It usually becomes pretty evident fairly soon that she is what she says she is. My gut instincts are seldom wrong. Why be rude when a little patience and being kind to one another brings much more satisfying results for both parties. If they get rude with you, you have choices.
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
He is showing interest, embrace it 😊
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gummybears · F
🤦🏻‍♀️
Because they want to get to know you... bastards right?
gummybears · F
@Chloe I’m not judging you, you asked I answered
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gummybears · F
I didn’t say that, I said you shouldn’t talk about your body if you don’t want them to ask questions...
Do as you want, I don’t really care
SW-User
Perhaps they dont know enough about the topic of conversation and are asking to increase their knowledge. However if they are being overly personal in their questions then there maybe an ulterior motive.

Personally I ask questions to get to know someone or the topic being discussed if I dont know enough about it. As going off to google mid conversation maybe construed as being rude.
fenomen02 · 41-45, M
mmmm.... I think I have read this before! LOL
SW-User
should be annoying
frequentlyme · 70-79, M
Do you mean if you are on something like a date, or in general conversation/messaging?
i don't think it's gender specific by any means. however i do know exactly what you mean. the people who rather than taking time to actually know someone want the whole thing up front as though you should trust a stranger you might not have even decided whether or not you want to continue corresponding with such personal details. it's all very intrusive ..

some general questions make perfect sense to ask. but people have a way of demanding a plethora of info from another person, and hardly offering any themselves, or giving vague answers but expecting the life story from you in great detail. it can be or seem a bit selfish. let me figure out whether i even click with you as a person/friend before you start trying to find out my blood type.
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@Chloe very welcome!
Mtwa85 · 46-50, M
I’m personally feel I do ask a lot of questions if I’m trying to keep the conversation going and they are not ask me any questions in return. It becomes a one sided conversation
Mastermadman · 61-69, M
So let me ask lol how bored are you?
Elisbch · M
I agree with this....

" Mtwa85 41-45, M
I’m personally feel I do ask a lot of questions if I’m trying to keep the conversation going and they are not ask me any questions in return. It becomes a one sided conversation."


It's happened more than once with me. Not all women, I find/I think, are comfortable asking a lot of questions or that's just not their MO. Many like info from the guy (I think) to come more naturally thru conversation. That's fine, but does make it a bit more challenging to keep a conversation going without asking more questions. Pounding out the questions becomes uncomfortable for me as well as for her (any female I would imagine). I wouldn't like it if it were reversed.

 
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