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I Can Be Friends With People Totally Different From Me

Walking away from a friendship that no longer benefits you isn't wrong; it means you're a stronger person for doing so.

Being able to accept that this person is not inherently bad, just bad for you and your life, is what makes you noble.

You are allowed to terminate toxic relashionships.

You have to respect yourself enough to leave behind people and situations that no longer serve you in a positive way.

As much as you care about the friendship, you can't destroy yourself for the sake of someone else, specially when you know they wouldn't do the same for you.

EX-BEST FRIEND you will always have a special place in my heart. How ever, you will no longer have the power to control and destroy me the way you once did. I may be selfish and unforgiving, but I don't owe you an explanation for finally taking care of myself the way I deserve.
TarikP
I was saying the same thing to myself once I ended my friendship with my "best friend" who clearly didn't give a fuck about me.

You're awesome. <3
TarikP
Oh trust me I'm completely over her, such a waste of time and energy. Wish I didn't get so close, all it did was piss me off and make me sad.
Justanothergirlonep · 26-30, F
exactly the same over here, except that we really had good times
TarikP
Oh me and my best friend had good times too but in the end it just wasn't worth it. She's not worth it...
Goeorgi12345
Well hope u don't make the same mistake twice
Justanothergirlonep · 26-30, F
awwww thank you so much, I really appreciate your words :)
Justanothergirlonep · 26-30, F
yes I know how that feels, but I'm not going to pretend I'm someone that I'm not, if they want to stay they can, if they think I'm weird for just being smart... they have the door open
Goeorgi12345
:)) x
MrNyceGuy
Are friendships only made to benefit yourself? Toxic is one thing but not benefitting is another. A true friend is one who isnt there just to gain.
Somethingwhispered
Some people are chumps, they laugh, they joke, maybe they even reassure a few times, but in the thick of it they just leave, and you don't let them come back (:
LysistratasWeakness2
I've been examining whether I need to apply the same rationale to a formerly romantic relationship I had recently.
Justanothergirlonep · 26-30, F
we need to be strong but just for us... I'm not saying we deserve better because I don't know what we deserve but I think we deserve someone who cares for us and make us smile not cry :))
IAmMK
I can be friends with all sorts of people. If we were all the same, this world would be plain and uninteresting.
SilverSearching
Beautifully said - and very wise for someone so young.
Justanothergirlonep · 26-30, F
thank you so much :))
SpontaneousRecoveryLovely
Is this the deep end of EP? :) love this post
DomCA
Message me
Justanothergirlonep · 26-30, F
you message me
DomCA
I tried and I couldn't
thatspositivenergy
You go girl.

 
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