I have two loved ones in need but can only help one.

I found out that my grandpa is dying. I feel rude not visiting him and grandma before he passes, but I also have a friend who is being stalked by very bad people (won’t go into detail) and needs someone to help her get around safely. I don’t want to leave her behind.

So I can either risk losing my friend to stalkers because I wasn’t there to help her, or I can let my grandpa die without having visited him. What do I do?