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Friendships...

As a female I find it incredibly hard to make and keep female friends.
I find very quickly that they become incredibly competitive and bitchy.
I generally don't compete because I am very comfortable within myself. Having been an only child I didn't have anyone to follow other than my mother. And although I have some of her attributes spending a lot of time alone has meant its essential for me to work out who I am.
Yes I'll agree I may have a fan base of male friends. But I also have ones that are happily in relationships whether married or committed.
And they support and care for me like a friend.
We're able to talk about all things sex(within reason), fashion, hobbies, food, crafts, cars...
I also ask for garden and DIY tips.
But a lot of the time we talk trash and nonsense.

It's just fun.

I'd love to have a female friend where she isn't competing or threatened or telling me I need to conduct myself differently.
Because I don't sleep with these men. I know the limit.
I dislike the jealousy that comes from the females friends.
When I was friendly with a woman who was constantly approached when we went out together I didn't hate or get jealous I accepted that her look and personality was more attractive. But I also had my fair share at other times and the nature of the relationship was different.

But still there was competition...

Are you able to make and keep friends of the same gender?
MellyMel22 · F
Those kinda women need to learn how to pick up other women and not put them down, but most of them never will.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@MellyMel22 I won't mess with you lol
MellyMel22 · F
@Mellowgirl I’m loyal, I just don’t let stupid people get away with much.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@MellyMel22 good for you x
SW-User
yeap i have no problem with humans of my gender ..
whether they have a problem with me, is something i cannot control, i can only control how i respond to that.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
I made all the friends I ever want at boarding school and college. These days I maintain friendly acquaintances with my neighbours and colleagues. I would say that it is easier to have casual relationships with men than women.
Yes it's easy. But i don't hang around .
I cant keep friends of any gender. Things always start off well but always end the same
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@nevergiveup sorry to hear that
I have a few women friends, two for over 40 years. But sadly, I was burned by some in the past so I’m not the sort to have a girl posse, like some do. My small social circle has equal numbers of men and women.

 
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