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When ever you go out to eat and drink with friends, are you willing to split the bill or do you only pay for what you ordered?

When does this become an issue?
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
I don't have friends.

I don't go out.

I have a tear in my esophagus.

I can't eat anymore either.
SW-User
@ScarletWitch I wouldn't mind being your friend
Paladin · 56-60, M
@ScarletWitch I can relate to that. Well, not the part about the tear in your esophagus.
4meAndyou · F
I can't stand that nit picky business in a public restaurant. The poor wait staff...standing there while people argue about what they are willing to pay...which is completely classless, IMO.
4meAndyou · F
@Spoiledbrat There is nothing wrong with splitting the bill. Most morons can divide by two. However, I have sat in restaurants with a whole group, with most of them arguing that they shouldn't have to pay one eighth of the bill because so and so ordered a drink, and so and so ordered a side salad with their dinner.

It's absolutely embarrassing.
There is also nothing wrong with getting separate checks. I wouldn't want to be a burden on anyone. I don't mind paying for friends but some people take advantage. It depends on who I'm with. I'd pay for family or a close friend any day. But I think it's a lot less confusing just to get separate bills. I've taken friends out before but for the general discussion I get separate tabs or bills or take turns paying, which I've done too. @4meAndyou
4meAndyou · F
@Spoiledbrat That's nice. As long as all of you don't sit there arguing about who had what food and whether or not you plan to pay for it.
meggie · F
Split the bill between us. However there are a couple of friends i wont go to a restaurant with as i end up paying for their greed ie coxktails, bottled water, 3 or 4 starters as they like to pick etc.
sdave455 · 41-45, M
I don’t have friends. Same as @ScarletWitch. I used to go out to eat with friends. It made me fat, broke and unhealthy for a long time and life just sucked. Now I only eat out with my family or I cook. I’ve gotten pretty good with the grill and usually make tasty but healthy meals - think grilled veggies and seasoned chicken, beef fish etc. I’m now fit, healthy and have saved boatloads of money - which I use in much better ways.
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
Somehow I always forget to bring my wallet
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
If I don't see them often, I'm happy to treat. But if we get together a lot, we all pay our fair share.
iamelijah · 26-30, M
I'm okay with split or it would be my treat. What become issue when your money isn't enough to pay the meal. Or you eat at expensive restaurant. It is definitely overbudget. Or your friend order more than your budget. Usually like that.
leeloh · F
Usually split, because we usually order similar stuff, or just pay the whole thing. We do rounds, and we pay once me, next time them etc.
leeloh · F
@Sadwithasmile 😮why? As if they don't have enough troubles at work dealing with idiots and Karens.
Sadwithasmile · 22-25, M
@leeloh not my fault he looks so damn fineee. Why can’t I get a fine man😭😭😭😭
leeloh · F
SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M
I never for drink because I don't drink alcohol. However, I happily split the bill for the food. At times, I have paid for the booze too on behalf of my friend if he/she needs help.🙂
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
This has never been an issue. We always pay our own bill. If it did ever present itself that way, I wouldn’t have a problem splitting the bill
Axelerator · 26-30, M
We switch between paying for eachother typically. So I'll give a night out, or a couple, and then someone else will take the next one and so on
GerOttman · 61-69, M
Lol..!! This depends on who we go out with. We have "split the bill" friends, and we have "separate checks" friends. It a complicated situation at times.
SW-User
I ask way ahead of time how we’re doing it. If I’m rich then I will say “I’m buying” if I’m not then I probably won’t go
It would probably work better to have separate checks. 🤔
@Spoiledbrat If you decide to have separate checks do you feel embarrassed to ask the waiter?
Why would I? I'm not made of money. @Souls
chrisCA · M
@Souls The server will ask if it is one bill, or separate.
wackidywack · 22-25
depends on what we ordered. I will usually pay for only what I ordered unless we ordered something to share like a platter
Normally if im willing to go out with people i dont mind covering the bill. Itd become an issue if i felt like it was me being used
Nebula · 41-45, F
I feel like the bill would get more expensive that way because nobody would want to.feel like they were getting jipped.
Sadwithasmile · 22-25, M
We usually split. If we are super close we fight over the bill, it becomes deep when they steal the bill from me.
I wouldn't mind paying the bill on occasion but wouldn't want to get stuck with the bill every time.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
We each either pay for only what we order or we pay for the entire bill. It's a give and take thing.
MntoNc · 36-40, M
I havent went out to eat with friends in quite a while but usually just pay for my own
I pay for what I ordered. It doesn’t make sense for me to pay more money than I spent.
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
I don’t go out anywhere anymore haha, when I did I always just split the bill
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
I don’t have this problem, we get the bill split by who is paying for who.
one of us usually picks up the tab. it evens out in the end
Montanaman · M
Pay the entire tab, so my friends can enjoy without worry. 👍🤗😎
I dont care. Whatever everyone feels comfortable with.
sasanack · 61-69, M
it only becomes an issue when your the only one that pays 🙃
DrWatson · 70-79, M
We either get separate checks, or one party is treating the others.
Oster1 · M
If I feel honored to be with friends, I pay the tab!
SW-User
Thank goodness i have no friends i go out with
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
We usually decide before we go who is going to pay.
SW-User
Don’t have many friends but I’ve done either way
chrisCA · M
Separate bills, unless dinner was my invitation.
SW-User
Usually I split the bill, from my experience
Dino11 · M
Separate checks if agreed upon.
REMsleep · 41-45, F
It becomes an issue if you are friends with broke and leechy people.
When I used to always go out with friends it was not even spoken about we paid for our own meals if there were 3 or 4 of us, even if it was annoying for the server we always told them kindly but straight away to be prepared for this and we tip well.
In larger groups we let only one of us pay and we all sent them the money while still at the table and we rounded up so that person would walk away 4 or 5 dollars richer for their troubles.
deadgerbil · 22-25, F
I've split the bill
Easygoing1234 · 46-50, M
I split or just pay it all
Emarky · 31-35, M
Split the bill
caccoon · 36-40
We usually pay for our own
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Just ask for separate checks. You don’t even have to ask because the server will usually ask is it all on one bill or separate.
SW-User
Split but rarely go out now

Friends always come over.

They bring the drinks and I cook the food

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Sadwithasmile · 22-25, M
@SW-User I’ll selflessly be your special person, let’s go to a steak house.

 
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