@Mugin16 Some do. It's to do with being the dominant partner. I personally prefer the man to be dominant but not all women do. Dominance isn't a gender thing where I live, it's a genderless individual choice. So is preferring a tall partner or a short one.

@MaryDreamilton my husband loves tall ladies, he loves looking short over them, but I don't care about heights, I just love wearing heels, and I was joking when I said "yeah over my guy". I wish I know how to be dominant, it is always easy for a guy that is not of my desire, but rather the only choice I find, to be dominant, bossing me, teaching me, getting me out of my nerves, anyone can hear me shout at my man, but do they know why? Not because I am dominant but because he made my life since engagement stressful and knew how to make my parents go against my desire, to be with someone who hates the life of dominant and submissive but he believes in compromise, but no! My parents are so old school, they want my life to be like their lives lol 😆 😂 🙃 😅 🤣

@MaLuna87MagiaLuna Parents can't expect their kids to be their clones. They have their own personalities and preferences.

@SW-User Why does everybody say that? Why not call them Barb Wire shoes, after the movie character?

@MaryDreamilton I’m just saying because they do to me.

@SW-User I'm just saying because they are known as Barb Wire shoes in my area, after the movie character.

@spice1 Pumps don't have high heels. There are two kinds of pumps and they are both flat. These
and these

@MaryDreamilton these are pumps.

@MaryDreamilton yeah that high I was 18 too but heels in general I began from 16. I guess we began the same way, like twinzies 🥰

@MaLuna87MagiaLuna Twinzies. Lol :)

@MaryDreamilton I was thinking of getting a pair just to see how i feel about it..

@Jenny1234 They are certainly not ugly and I've never found them painful. I've been wearing them since I was 18 and I still wear them now at 46.

@MaryDreamilton beauty is in the eye of the beholder. They are ugly to me

@Jenny1234 What shoes do you wear? You don't have to post a pic of yourself wearing them, just the shoes will do.

@maturemuff61 I hope I can still walk in them when I'm your age. Lol :)

@Martinette Certainly not that pair.

@laotzu92 I do know a few women who wear those, but I couldn't.

@helenS Nobody has ever suggested that I wear Birks. They compliment me when I wear Scholls though.

@MaryDreamilton They can be used like slippers if you know what I mean.

@helenS So can Scholls.

@Pretzel What's "kinky" about them? They are popular where I come from.

@MaryDreamilton nothing - they are attractive and sexy

it just felt hotter when she wore them when...you know :)

@Pretzel Yes, I do know. I love to wear them then. Lol :)

@MaryDreamilton truthfully the shoes never matter ... its the legZZZ that are attached to them

@pdockal Where I come from, shoe fetishism is very common. I've got nearly 200 pairs of shoes.

@MaryDreamilton Wow
Show them off but include your feet

@HairbrushDiva You’re not wearing them much at the moment then 😀😀😀

@Ian123 No.

@SW-User I know not everyone can walk in them but I've been wearing them for 20-odd years now and I'm used to them. Lol :)

@MaryDreamilton well enough. Haven't fallen yet. Lol

@Nudistsue26 That's a good sign. :)

@MaryDreamilton yes

@Docdiaz48 They look a bit rough. I've got a few pairs of flip-flops but not like that.

@TexChik Have you got any like that?

@MaryDreamilton similar . That puts me over 6’2” ... but I have some long dresses I have worn them with

@MrsRachelEvans Course they're high.

@MaryDreamilton I prefer heels with a small platform.

@Mugin16 Those aren't high enough for me. I might as well wear my ballet flats.

@MaryDreamilton Feel free to vote in my poll then:

https://similarworlds.com/7-Fashion/897147-Which-one-are-your-favorite-heels-Which-pair-of

@spice1 Those look more difficult to walk in than the ones I posted.

@SW-User They look like PVC. I prefer leather boots. I've got a similar pair to these worn by J Lo.

@MaryDreamilton
Those are nice.

@SW-User Thanks. I like those.

@smileylovesgaming I take it you couldn't walk in them. I'm used to them.

@PepsiColaP I was right. You are a troll.

@SW-User How dare you use filthy lowlife trash language on my posts? BLOCKED!

@SW-User Cheap and nasty answer. Goodbye, troll.