Today I’m headed back home, after visiting the folks for Thanksgiving…

I don't know it this helps, or explains it. I am a grandparent. When my wife was alive we would entertain our children and grands at our cabin in the Northwoods. It was fun, engaging and an all around great time.

When the kids and grands left for home it felt like someone sucked the air out of the place. No, I didn't cry, and I don't think my wife did.....but there was definitely a pall, an emptiness.

We both knew that we couldn't keep them with us forever, but just the same, it tugs at the heart that we don't have them more. My wife has passed, and the feelings are even stronger.
I can emphasize with your parents.

Sounds like your younger sister is playing games with you and that's really unfortunate. :( I'm sorry.

I think it’s hard as they come to know their time is limited, especially with the health struggles. It’s hard for us to think about that too, but we have to go back to our own lives and the space we’ve carved out. This is part of love. I try to think of it that way. It’s as hard as it is wonderful. And sometimes sisters say things that don’t need to be said. 😑🤗🤗

Maybe a little dig from Sis? The art of dark sisterdom.

Because she wanted to make you feel bad, most likely. Even though you love your parents and spent that time with them, [i]you[/i] left. Why she thinks you should feel 'guilty' about that, I sure don't know.

Not that I am not empathetic, yet least you have family. These last couple of decades have been difficult without either parent. 😔

Younger sis still at home? Could be jealousy of your independence. Wanting to lay a guilt trip on you because she yearns to have what you have achieved.

I find my father gets really choked up now when he says good bye at the end of my visits. It makes it really hard to leave. 😞

Oh thats so sad. Your mom must really miss you alot. I hope you an visit your mom again soon.

Heartbreaking in one sense, fulfilling in another!!