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therighttothink50 · 56-60, M
Not something to build a relationship upon.
Could be an addiction or just way too horny.
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
If that's all he's in it for he'll probably bored pretty soon and you'll be rid of him, I'm guessing.
RIPKAW · 31-35, M
Why do you not like it? Does it feel like he's using you or something?
RIPKAW · 31-35, M
@Witchthatwantsfun from my experience there needs to be a balance. I've lost girlfriends in the last because I didn't want to have sex often enough. It made them feel like I wasn't interested in them. I'm not a very sexual person.

Have you spoken to him about this issue? Communication is key to happy relationships
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
@RIPKAW yes I told him about it and he said he won't ask for it if I don't want to. I can have sex 3 times a month but he wants it every day. It's tricky because if I don't do it often he will find someone else I believe😅😅😅😅
RIPKAW · 31-35, M
@Witchthatwantsfun yeah I get that but is it worth it to things you don't really want to do? Personally I don't think so. Plus those kind of relationships don't last.
SW-User
Yes, it is common.
What do you consider “often”?
@Witchthatwantsfun
I’d think that’s normal.
You’d have to agree on what you both prefer.
SW-User
@Witchthatwantsfun just once?
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
@SW-User yes🤣 and still a bit too much for me😫
TexChik · F
Would you rather him get it somewhere else ?
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
When I was young more than once a day, so I would say normal
I think the key issue here is why dont you like it .
Now im not saying that his expectations are normal or fair, or unfair . What im saying is, why doesnt he make sex so enjoyable that you [b]do [/b] want it just as much ?

I think its tje quality of the sex that is the issue

Now men can have a 'quicky' and still orgasm.
Not always the fact for women .
Some people need more foreplay than others.

I think you guys might need some good old heart to heart communication.
Js🤷‍♀️
RosaMarie · 41-45, F
So you don't really want fun?
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
@RosaMarie yes but not too often😂😅
SlaveEt · 36-40, F
You could always add another woman so she can share the load🤭
SW-User
I am the opposite but that's not better. You need to find the right balance for you.
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
At your age I was wanting sex 3 times a day off my girlfriends
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
I don’t care for the use of the word normal, it’s different for everyone.

I would love to have sex every day, multiple times. I’ve never met anyone else that did though.
Funlov · M
What’s often
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
Everyday😵‍💫@Funlov
Funlov · M
@Witchthatwantsfun that’s ok
chrisCA · M
Uh. He is a guy.
having a matching libido is very important for a relationship or neither of you wil be happy
black4white · 56-60, M
Give it up and stop rationing it out…

If you don’t like sex then tell him that and then don’t be surprised if he finds it elsewhere.

You personally don’t have to like sex or enjoy it that is totally your business but please be open and honest with him about this and then see where things stand
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
Sounds like a male verison of a Nympho
Witchthatwantsfun · 31-35, F
@JohnOinger yes😇😇
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@Witchthatwantsfun Nice Thats Hot
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@Witchthatwantsfun Do you like Doggy & Anal
DDonde · 31-35, M
People got different libidos

 
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