What are you gonna do when your family members self destructing their financial plan?

I don't understand why they behave like that. I keep telling them to make savings just in case to use them when rainy days. But I got dismissed. And now, when they broke they keep asking my money.. I was like I have no longer savings when I spent for them looking them a pity way to survive.

They got salary every month but spendthrift on nonsense things.
No matter what advice I wanna give it pointless.

They looked like couldn't survive when I am gone. What is going on?

That is it. I am just venting a bit. I feel like wanna smoke cigarette again tonight. My head hurts.