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How do you deal with tyrannical people who bark orders all day long whilst doing nothing at all to help

That’s my sister, she tells everyone what to do, but gets away with doing nothing at all. In two months she has unpacked the dishwasher once, all the other time me and her husband do it every day. This morning she gets up and tells me to unpack the dishwasher, like she does every other morning, I reply she needs do it for once, but nope. she tells me to clear the dining table, whilst all her junk sits there on it which she doesn’t move, every night she doesn’t even take her dishes to the sink after dinner, her husband has to take them for her, and did I mention he makes dinner every night and cleans up everything after, many times I help, she of course never helps in any way and never says thanks to anyone for anything. He;s like her slave. She screams and yells if anyone disagrees with her, or doesn’t do what she says. Don’t worry I’m moving in a few days, no way I’m living with this tyrannical bullshit.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
She’s a big bully. I have an older sister that way who would order me around and I ended beating her butt when I was 15. She’d punch me in the arm if I told her no on anything and I had enough. Her husbands went through hell with her and she’d hit them too. She had a couple of really good boyfriends who moved in with her, one lasted 3 years and she’ll never find anyone who would do so much like that one did including caring for her son while she worked night shifts. She ruined that relationship too. I don’t think she has had any real relationship for 20 years now.
Rose0415 · 36-40, F
I couldn't deal with that. I would probably end up going to jail for aggravated assault.
You can't choose your family but everyone has got their own tolerance for what they will put up with. I wouldn't want to live in same house as someone like that so wouldn't stick around. Some people are better in small doses too so keeping some distance may improve the relationship.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
Glad you are able to move out and get away from her. She sounds horrible.
candycane · 31-35, F
I'd bust the shit all over the floor haha
candycane · 31-35, F
@sirenofthesea can't kick me out if I get mail there she would have to go file eviction papers and I would make her miserable that whole time haha
No I’m paying rent here and buy the groceries too, I do so much cleaning up after her and helping her husband, she does nothing at all, today her justification for it was that she earns more so her husband should have to do everything like her slave, which he is. @Bodymindsoul @Bodymindsoul @Bodymindsoul
@candycane you’re braver then me, I’m probably too sweet.

 
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