How do you NOT push people away, those who actually want to get to know you?

I have a tendency to do this, I always get skeptical about their intentions. So I push them away. Something I want to change, just not sure how. . .

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itsok · 31-35, F

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In all seriousness, I don’t know. I struggle with it too.

Temporallube · M

@itsok you only need me sis 🙄

itsok · 31-35, F

*rubs Vaseline on you* I knew you’d come around @Temporallube

Temporallube · M

@itsok 🤦🏽‍♂️

SW-User

Idk. I push people away, too, because they always hurt me

BeefySenpie · M

If they really want to know you, they'll push back

Otherwise you're not wrong

SW-User

You’re gonna have to let your guard down for that one

Sicarium · 46-50, M

🤷‍♂️

RustyLingustic · 26-30

I tell my anxiety to shut the hell up and let me enjoy talking to someone. My anxiety is pretty bad, so it takes me sometime before I warm up to someone and get to know them but in the end if that other person is still with me by the time my anxiety is gone then they’re people I’m going to make good friends with.

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Snowvixen

@Kingfish28 😂 push it,push it real good.

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