When i tell poeople that I would love to catch up with them, why do they offer to meet instantly?
Obviously i am just being awkwardly nice
31-35, F
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NerdyPotato · M
@Zaphod42 I know, but those social obligations are weird.
Zaphod42 · 51-55, M
@BittersweetPotato That’s sorta on him for not understanding the social contract then. The “sometime” in “let get coffee sometime” means it’s a nice thought that most likely will never happen. It’s like when you ask a coworker how they are…both parties understand you’re not actually asking and don’t really care, and the social contract is to reply with “great, how are you?” even if their life is falling apart at the seams.
AntisocialTroll · 56-60, F
BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F
@AntisocialTroll their loss 🥺
PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 31-35, M
I fall for that every time and I plan things but it turns out they don't really mean it. Happened a few times whenever I come across someone I used to go to school with. I guess professionally speaking it's slightly different but maybe they don't see it this way.
BittersweetPotato · 31-35, F
@PiecingBabyFaceTogether You shouldn't plan unless it is confirmed. It is usually not professional situations which i am talking about here.. but friends whom i haven't seen in a long while
TheSirfurryanimalWales · 61-69, M
SomeMichGuy · M
...because they have been starved for social interaction due to the pandemic, AND they like you.
NerdyPotato · M
You neurotypicals are weird. 🤣
Lostpoet · M
They want friends
chrisCA · M
They like you?
bijouxbroussard · F