My bestie is clingy as hell. Not in the touchy way, but she needs me in her space

I'm just confused as to how you can be clingy but hate being touched.

We're 2 different types of clingy 😂

I just wanna be loved on and touched and then you can leave me alone when I've had my fill

And she just needs someone's presence, and can do without the touchy feely stuff.

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Reject · 26-30, M

Do friends normally touch each other?

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SailorMarz · F

@Reject I'd love a guy friend I could be touchy with but I'm afraid of someone getting the wrong idea. I'm even afraid of my bestie getting the wrong idea since I'm attracted to girls 😂.

Reject · 26-30, M

@SailorMarz I know. People always get the wrong idea because touch as your language is usually something only couples do unfortunately. I wish it wasn’t that way. I could use touch of any kind.

SailorMarz · F

@Reject I know, I'm extremely touched starved since ppl have to be so weird about it.

itsok · 31-35, F

My best friend is a verrryyyy touchy person, and I’m a very not touchy person, and we have to meet in the middle 😁

SailorMarz · F

@itsok yeah I don't hug her much but when I do, she's willing to tolerate it 😂

WhateverWorks · 36-40

Sounds like even though you both crave attachment in someway maybe you guys are looking to satisfy different needs.

YourMomsSecretCrush · M

i dont really do clingy besties....... thats just me though. LOL maybe you should have a talk with her.

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