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I Lost My Virginity Before Getting Married

I was 25. It was my birthday. I'd been seeing my boyfriend for about a year. I didn't start out intending to have sex, but I must admit that I had thought about it. I had wanted him for a while, but I was raised to wait for marriage. Still, on this particular day my desire for him was especially strong.

My boyfriend said he had a very special birthday present for me, so we went to his house. There he carried out a well executed seduction. I was more than a bit reluctant, but I was in love with him, so eventually his gentle persistence won me over. He was kind, sweet, romantic, gentle, and persistent and respectful of my feelings and eventually my resistance fell away. I couldn't resist anymore.

He had mentioned to me a few times that he had an urge to make love to me, but that he respected my feelings enough not to pursue it. I had felt the urge too, but I had always managed not to succumb to it. Somehow, this day felt different, though I didn't realize why.

He started to make small, subtle advances and I barely noticed. Or maybe I didn't want to notice. The wet kisses passed unnoticed. He mentioned again that he had been thinking a lot about making love to me lately. Gradually, the advances got more direct and forward.

Somewhere along the line, I started to say no and it came out OK. That's when I knew it was time. I was surprised, but I knew I was ready, due to his persistence. So I gave in. I was scared, nervous, uncomfortable, but exhilarated, happy, excited, and curious. I actually found myself looking forward to it. I was overwhelmed by the sheer pleasure and the romantic moment.

I sent him out of the room, then I stripped my way up the stairs, leaving a boot at the foot of the stairs, another boot a couple of steps up, my dress a couple of steps after that, my pantyhose a step up from there, my bra at the top of the stairs, and my panties hanging on the doorknob of the bedroom.

I waited completely naked on the bed, wrapped in a sheet. He quickly stripped down to his undies and climbed on the bed next to me. I was tingling. After a little foreplay, I took his underpants off. Then we curled up and gave each other oral simultaneously. We did that for about half an hour.

Then I rolled over on my back and he went inside. We had intercourse for quite a long time. He was very good, and he told me he enjoyed it too. I had two or three orgasms and he came too. It was excellent! He was very good! It was passionate and romantic, about as good as a girl's first time can be.

Afterwards, I felt a mix of emotions: sadness, exhilaration, excitement, disappointment, deep romance, nervousness, peace, a bit of regret, but also happiness, satisfaction, and a myriad of other feelings. It was all something of a jumble.

It was a wonderful first experience, very romantic and tender. He was patient and he was very good. I felt like part of me had just died, but I also felt like I had just started an exciting new adventure, one I would enjoy many times afterwards. What a great birthday present!
pdqsailor1 · 61-69, M
In this world we value knowledge and expertise / experience in ALL things... except seemingly one thing... People who hold virginity up as a goal, a prize are in fact idiots because virginity is ignorance and inexperience the very opposite of what it should be. I was the same age as you were when I was finally relieved of my inexperience by thankfully a more experienced Lady... Later when I met the Woman who would become my Wife she too was thankfully experienced and she knew what she liked... Sex Is very important in a relationship... too important to be left to amateurs...
cd4259 · 61-69, M
You are so lucky I am really glad you had a caring lover for your first time and that you have such wonderful memories.
RebeccaSJ · 46-50, F
@cd4259 Yes, we both wanted it to be a good experience.
JFinch · 41-45, F
@RebeccaSJ It sounds like you pulled it off.
RebeccaSJ · 46-50, F
@JFinch Mmmm hmmm.
ninjavu · 51-55, M
Wow, nice to hear of such a wonderful first time!
RebeccaSJ · 46-50, F
@ninjavu Thank you. It was good.
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RebeccaSJ · 46-50, F
@nudydude Thank you. It was just about as good as a girl's first time could be.
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RebeccaSJ · 46-50, F
@nudydude I was pretty eager to do it again.
Huckleberry42 · 41-45, M
You perfectly described this. Thank you very much. But why did you feel sadness?
RebeccaSJ · 46-50, F
@Huckleberry42 As I said, I am a Christian and I was raised to wait. I even wrote a song about it. I "failed" to maintain the standard of purity. I was a bit disappointed, due to old ideas that had been ingrained.
Huckleberry42 · 41-45, M
@RebeccaSJ What's the song called?
RebeccaSJ · 46-50, F
@Huckleberry42 Which song? "Wait for Me"?
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RebeccaSJ · 46-50, F
@geoam1 It was!
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Canicu69 · 70-79, M
I like the part when he gave you oral. Had he done that before
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Turning 25 never sounded so good !
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
That was nice
RebeccaSJ · 46-50, F
@Midlifemale Thank you!

 
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