What things made you end relationships before they even begun?

1. I told a guy I was busy with family that I hadn't seen for 2 years and I'd let him know when I was back home. Instead he called me twice and texted me. Because I didn't respond he didn't pick up my call the following morning.

2. He told me he couldn't provide me, with what I needed... Oh but he still wanted a leg over!

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WhateverWorks · 36-40

Blowing up my phone when I said I needed quiet time or to focus on something.

They disliked animals.

Talking about moving in together type stuff within the first couple weeks.

Going on a lunch date to Denny’s talking about how it was nice to do something like this once in a while, but he couldn’t see going on expensive dates like this often and why can’t people just go on picnics. I like picnics, but that was a yahhh-nah flag for me. My ‘big dreams’ for my love life don’t peak at Denny’s lol

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@WhateverWorks all valid reasons to end things.

SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M

Sorry, it ended before you even got to know each other. Don't worry! Someone else is waiting for you.😇
I am always there. Though, you walk past by me everytime.😝
Honestly speaking, it just happened once with me. She showed me her clever side right after the first interaction and was caught right away. I left her in no position to utter a word as my facial reaction was enough to make her feel the guilt.

Threepio

One in particular I remember:

When she voiced the belief that she could "change me" for the better

(whatever the hell that was, I don't know as I didn't stick around long enough to find out).

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Threepio some people are so bizarre. I'm trying not to be that person. But I will admit the current said he was going to quit smoking October 1st and he hasn't bothered, he claims its due to so many events as the holiday season picks up.
We videocalled and he was smoking so I said "what's that in your hand?"
And he went red... And relayed the comment above.

I won't go on at him, but it's more because he said he was determined to quit abd he would come Oct 1st.

Threepio

@Mellowgirl IKR..

I have a close friend who told me he was quitting before he moved overseas. Now, 4 months later... he calls from overseas and I give him sh*t every time I hear the lighter flick......

Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

@Threepio I don't want to be a nagg... But I do think he's lack discipline and he doesn't place any on himself either.
He's a good human, he is just a little rough around the edges.