I know i shldnt be upset

I know I shldnt be upset but my ex husband deleted me off Facebook... actually I'm more bothered than upset... he rarely used fb & he hasn't deleted my family & his family hasn't deleted me... we weren't in contact anyway.. I've definitely moved on... why am I bothered over a trivial thing??

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Sweetpoison · 36-40, F Best Comment

Cause he was part of your life and sometimes we don’t wanna totally let go and the fact that he deleted you even if u were not talking to him means like you are not someone he wants in his future, not even the thought of it.

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@Sweetpoison I think that's it...

Caleidoscope · F

Maybe because you're still not done with him ?
If you've really moved on ,you wouldn't have been bothered and instead of him doing the act ,you'd have done it ?

Jessmari · 41-45

A reminder of a closed door on something you may still be coming to terms with. It takes time.

SomeMichGuy · M

He doesn't want you looking over his shoulder as he rebuilds his life/goes ahead without you.

He doesn't have animosity, etc., towards your family, nor does his family have any towards you. (Some of both of the families will probably peel away.)

But why would he want you watching him? It would be normal to get that person out of one's life for at least a while.

He has moved on, or is seriously trying to do so. You should consider doing this, too.

ButterRobot · 51-55, M

Probably the final closure ?

Human1000 · M

Ugh, I feel for you. Keep working on dissociation. Break the connection.

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@Human1000 @Human1000 suppose not being connected on fb helps not being connected in life... I know fb is full of fake ppl but suppose to break that connection...

Human1000 · M

@BondGirl84 Shut that FB down and cultivate good things that make you feel good about yourself. It takes practice. You can do it.

travelguy01 · 41-45, M

I don’t know, why are you?

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travelguy01 · 41-45, M

@BondGirl84 You still have feelings or regret the divorce?

BondGirl84 · 36-40, F

@travelguy01 I wanted to work things out but he didn't... he wasn't ready for marriage I know that now... although he proposed...

travelguy01 · 41-45, M

@BondGirl84 Probably best to just move on.
I got out of a bad marriage a few years ago, she wasn’t really ready either and we had a son too. She left the area completely a couple of years ago, she wasn’t ready or able to accept serious responsibility.

SW-User

It cuts deep and takes time

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