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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
Couldn’t you just do it with a willing participant?
JollyRoger · 70-79, M
@Keepitsimple Oh yes..... but it's the 'acceptability' of it by society - by the people who run long term care institutions. Anyone can have sex with the opposite gender, but it's the weird reactions to having more than one partner that creates the problem.....Why does that reaction exist?
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
It's a drastic change from how we've structured our modern cultures so it is going to take some time to find broad acceptance.

But it is becoming less rare among young people as well. There is a poly flag among the lbgt+ types.

My own poly lifestyle is known among family, but not at work.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@JollyRoger I presently live with my girlfriend. She goes out with her other boyfriend, usually on Friday and Monday nights. Sometimes he'll come to a holiday family party. If we need help around the house he'll come lend a hand. He and I get along, but we have no real relationship with each other except through her.

I am allowed to pursue others as well. Though I tend to be more shy and don't get out of the house as much so I haven't really taken advantage of it.
JollyRoger · 70-79, M
@ViciDraco So long as it works, great! Nice to know that he is 'involved' in your living situation. Now, if you don't mind: What is her motivation to this arrangement? For example was he a previous 'love connection' she can't give up, or some other link to her past? Or is it just that she likes joy of diversity? Or something else?
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
@JollyRoger He is someone she met going out to karaoke nights. Which is something I have never had interest in.
Kygirl · F
I understand were you are coming from but it's against God's law so unfortunately we can't question it.
It's for our own protection.
Zeusdelight · 61-69, M
@JollyRoger So you think she should not be protected?
JollyRoger · 70-79, M
@samueltyler2 I know a woman who lives in a LTC home, is single and is a very caring person, but she has health problems. A man comes to the same LTC home to visit his wife who has dementia and she has no recollection of him... yet he comes to visit. The single woman knows both of them and is friendly with the man - sexually friendly as she tells me. I have been in the presence of all three of them and I see absolutely nothing wrong with this....the man is happy, the single woman is happy and the demented wife doesn't really care, does she? Point out the harm to me please!
@ZeusdelightZeus... I miss your point about who needs to be protected...
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@JollyRoger you said it, i didn't not need to! You totally missed my point entirely! I suggest you reread my comment!
enjoyingitnow · 61-69, M
This is what we get with the majority of people using only their myopic sight rather then foresight and not caring about hindsight

 
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