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I Have Bisexual Desires

A few days ago I was in the local shopping centre killing time on my own simply browsing around various shops as I often do when taking the wife shopping for the day. We go fairly regularly she goes of to the usual M&S or Debenhams etc while I take a walk around and look at electrical stores or some clothes shops. I happened to be in the HMV store browsing through the dvd's, when I noticed a slim handsome grey haired guy probably around my age at the next row over and I think that's when I realised my bisexual desires are becoming more prolific. He was wearing a very short pair of shorts, like those you would wear for running and a sporty anorak/showerproof jacket which reached halfway down his shorts. I was quite drawn to his stature and sporty looking legs and in my mind I wanted to go over to him and say I like your shorts and you look very fit. What am I thinking ! goodness he might be gay and appreciate the compliment then what happens what do I say ?. Then he might be in a similar frame of mind as me or he might just be enjoying wearing very shorts shorts and tell me to p*ss off, isn't this confusing !.
I have never found a guy attractive before but I so wanted to say hello and strike up a conversation. Alas I never did but my mind raced on about how the conversation may have gone, it felt exciting and as I left the store I wanted to kick myself for not initiating a conversation.
It seems like my bi-curiosity desires are coming more and more to the forefront. Maybe one day I will have the courage to say to a stranger Heh I like you in shorts you look good in them.
whatalife68 · 70-79, M
I understand your situation. Approaching another guy to strike up a conversation is a hard thing to do. I am not attracted to men, but the bi curious side of me would like to find a like-minded mature person to see if they are into exploring. I see guys at the gym but rarely chat with them. I do observe and occasionally someone will attempt to start a conversation and I don't pursue the conversation, just let it drop. Have started to say hi and chat with those people in an attempt to get to know them better and maybe they too are looking to explore their bi side. Have yet to try websites or Craig's List and truly not comfortable doing either. I do however, enjoy thinking of the possibilities.
onlythemessenger · 70-79, M
@whatalife68 Thank you for your reply.
I acknowledge a conversation with only a few words when it is initiated by a stranger but like you say don't pursue it. Maybe that is where we are going wrong ?
I have also looked at some contact sites but that was as far as I felt comfortable going, looking.
Yes I also enjoy thinking of the possibilities.
doodatt · 61-69, M
I quite often look at guys and wonder if they are aroused by cock like l am. I Always check them out.
onlythemessenger · 70-79, M
@doodatt Not sure if I am aroused by cock, rather more finding someone with the same curiosity. Certainly very keen to strike up a friendship and hopefully eventually satisfy the curiosity.
doodatt · 61-69, M
I am very sure cock arouses me, l'm hooked.
onlythemessenger · 70-79, M
@doodatt It's something I might enjoy one day, the idea of mutual playing would be a fantastic experience and yes that is very arousing.
well you could have started with a: 'hey I like your jacket! Did you get it here?....are those shorts comfy?..I was thinking of starting to get in better shape..do you recommend them? They DO look good!'....etc..
onlythemessenger · 70-79, M
@Dangerousliasons: Thank you for your suggestions which are really very helpful indeed.
Probably the kind of comments I might have made in my youth when wanting to chat with a young woman, guess the years have taken their toll, I'm not as sharp as I was LOL. Also given the situation where I was taken aback with my own thoughts of approaching another guy for a chat was a strange experience in itself.
If the opportunity ever arises again I am prepared, I think !
Thank you.
@onlythemessenger: Glad I could help and better luck next time!
laotzu92 · 70-79, M
If you had approached it as just being a friendly conversation, it might have developed nicely on its own.
onlythemessenger · 70-79, M
@laotzu92 It would have been easier to approach if it were simply a friendly conversation, however I admit that I found him somewhat intriguing. That was the confusing element for me at the time.

 
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