I Am Trying to 'figure Out' My Bisexuality

For the longest I thought I was simply looking at other women. Even when I was young when I saw a girl I would think oh she's pretty or I wonder what holding her hands would be like. Yet, I find myself looking at women in the same light I see men more often then not. The same attraction, yet not? For example, I had a crush on one of my male professors back in 2016 and I still think about him to this day. I currently have those same feelings today, but its towards a woman. Now I'm confused as to what my sexuality really is...

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Bigmusicloverfan1 · 41-45, F

Kind of going through same For past 10 or more years I have found myself attracted to afew women only could not act upon any because not interested in me back one woman straight and with a partner another same and another single but totally straight not interested and most recent married straight and not interested in that way not really met anyone that has been actually interested from either sex really plus I don’t have good self esteem and think if came down to it I am very scared of being judged and very confused so I can relate is it difficult I think if you are not like me you should maybe experiment so you know

Mbingh01 · 61-69, F

Only way to find out is, if you try being with a woman and see how you feel. You may find you prefer woman, and if so, that’s perfectly ok! Or you may find it’s not for you.

Pherick · 41-45, M

Don't try and put it in a box, just accept what you like is what you like and go out there and enjoy it!

Childnomore · F

I think u just have 2 be u!! let ur feeling and emotions lead u!

nahright09 · 41-45, M

so don't label it.

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

Sounds like bisexuality. It tends to be a sliding scale not a on off switch. So don't worry about getting an exact definition. Worry less about the label and go more with what feels right to you (not what others tell you).

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